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Handle This: He Has a Secret Fetish

DearSugar — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 12:00:00 -0700

Your boyfriend feels like your sex life needs a pick me up, but he doesn’t seem too thrilled when you suggest different positions. Instead, he says that he has his own idea, but he wants it to be a surprise.

The next night when you get home, he’s in the bedroom waiting for you. Laid out across the bed is a naughty nurse uniform. He has a stethoscope around his neck and he’s ready to play make-believe. How would you handle this?

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Top Sex Fetishes: Last Five

DearSugar — Thu, 12 Jun 2008 08:00:00 -0700

Yesterday, I told you about the first five of the Top 10 Sex Fetishes, according to AskMen.com. Are you ready to hear the last five, most popular fetishes? They may surprise you!

5. Fingernails and lipstick: I know red lipstick and long red fingernails were a thing of the '80s, but some people are still obsessed with it. I guess there's something about perfectly puckered red lips — when you kiss them, lipstick smudges all over both people's faces, making men feel like they're having sex with a prostitute (something that's rebellious and taboo). As for the nails, some people absolutely love the feel of fingernails running along their backs, and they need it in order to get aroused.

4. Braids, ponytails, pigtails: This is the little-girl syndrome. Having sex with someone they perceive as young reminds them of a virgin, and also falls into the category of doing something that's wrong. Braids and long pigtails can also be used to whip or tickle a person, which is also a huge turn on. On the other hand, some women have a fetish for no hair, and they love rubbing a man's bald head.

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Top 10 Sex Fetishes: One to Five

DearSugar — Wed, 11 Jun 2008 10:00:00 -0700

A while back, I told you about the different types of fetishes people have when it comes to sex. There's media (which has to do with how something feels), form (which has to do with the shape of something or how it looks), and animate (anything having to do with human body parts). There are tons of specific fetishes that fall into those categories, so let's check out which ones ranked the highest according to AskMen.com. Just to remind you, a fetish is characterized as an obsession, not just something you are attracted to. If a person has a fetish involving one of the things listed below, it means that she needs to think about or see that thing to get aroused.

Here are five of the top 10 fetishes:

10. Stomachs: Who can resist a soft, toned, and lean belly, right? Well some guys with this fetish may have a thing about ejaculating onto a woman's belly.

9. Body piercings: Younger people (18 to 35) tend to be into this. Piercings in the nose, navel, nipple, eyebrow, lip, or tongue are a must for people with this fetish. Feeling or seeing the cold metal is a huge turn on.

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Types of Fetishes

DearSugar — Wed, 13 Feb 2008 07:00:00 -0800

Remember that Sex and the City episode where Charlotte is given an expensive pair of shoes from the owner who has a foot fetish? There was something about women's feet that really got him going. Like that sales guy, some people have fetishes when it comes to sex. A fetish is different than just being attracted to something — you can like brunettes, but if you can't get sexually aroused without one, well then it's likely that you have a fetish for people with brown hair.

There are three types of fetishes:

Media: The type of material or the way something feels is what's obsessed over. Media fetishes include silk, feathers, fur, or leather.
Form: The shape of the object is what's important here. Long, skinny stiletto heels, knee-high boots, and flowy lingerie fall into this category.
Animate: These types of fetishes have anything to do with human body parts. That includes breasts, buns, bellies, necks, hair, etc.

There are all degrees of fetishes, and there's nothing wrong with having one unless the fetish gets out of hand, interferes with your life or your relationships, or harms you or your lover. If it gets to that point, it's best to see a professional.

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