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Dear Poll: Do You Get Lost Easily?

DearSugar — Thu, 23 Oct 2008 08:00:00 -0700

A sense of direction really comes in handy when you’re trying to navigate anywhere new. But unfortunately, not all of us have a natural knack for knowing where we are or getting where we’re going — some people have a propensity to always get lost, even with directions! There’s nothing like being stuck in the car for an hour circling the same streets to ruin a person’s mood. So ladies, does this sound like you? Are you easily lost?Source

Dear Poll: Do You Get Lost Easily?

Yes! I have a terrible sense of direction; it’s awful.

No. I’m actually really good at knowing my way around.

Eh, I’m somewhere in between.

Other — Please share below!

Relationship Protocol: Sharing the Road

DearSugar — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 08:00:00 -0700

Relationships are all about sharing, from feelings to responsibilities. But some things are not as easily shared as others, like driving. I’ve found that many individuals in relationships consider themselves a better driver than their counterpart so much so that they either demand to be the driver or won’t allow their significant other to drive their car. And all the way on the other end of the spectrum, there are the couples who argue over who should have to drive because neither wants to. Sure, it’s just driving, but I think it’s also an issue of control. So how do you and your boyfriend divvy up the driving? And who’s the better driver?

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Dear Poll: Do You Experience Road Rage?

DearSugar — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 13:00:00 -0700

Though I try to walk or use public transportation as much as possible, San Francisco is not New York, and life demands that I hop in the car and face the open road every now and again. The problem is, driving in traffic or dealing with aggressive drivers really gets my blood boiling, and before I know it I’m mumbling obscenities under my breath. While music can help calm my nerves, like many people out there, I do suffer from a mild case of road rage. Are you like me?Source

Dear Poll: Do You Experience Road Rage?

Unfortunately, yes. Something about being stuck in the car around terrible drivers really gets me frustrated.

Only if I’m already annoyed.

Nah, you just have to let go of the things that are out of your control — like other drivers.

Other — I'll explain.

How to Deal With Road Rage

DearSugar — Thu, 12 Jul 2007 11:00:00 -0700

I'm sure you've all been one of those pissed off people, angrily clenching the steering wheel, cursing at the traffic that's making you late for work. Stress from driving can cause your blood pressure to rise and your emotions to get the best of you behind the wheel. People with such road rage honk their horn incessantly, yell at other drivers, tailgate cars in front of them, and weave in and out of different lanes, which can cause accidents.

If any of this rings true for you, here are some ways to prevent road rage:

Carpool. Take a bus. Hop on the subway. You can get to work anyway you want, but who said you have to be the one behind the wheel? Now instead of getting annoyed during your commute, you can read a book, catch up on the news, write a letter, talk to other people, do a little work, or even snooze. Doesn't that sound relaxing? Plus, it's better for the environment!
If you have to drive, try to avoid certain times of day or places that get congested. I used to leave for work a little earlier, which almost cut my commute in half.
Make yourself a mix of calming songs to listen to in the car. You'd be surprised what relaxing music can do for your mood. Or listen to a book on tape. Getting lost in a good story can distract you from getting bothered by what's happening outside the car.
Be the bigger person. If someone cuts you off, doesn't use their turn signal, runs a red light, or rides up your behind, just let it go. You can't change what they did (even if you give them "the finger" with both hands), so just forget about it. Be proud that you are being a good and safe driver.
If you come across an aggressive driver, keep your distance, don't make eye contact, don't honk, and don't do anything to instigate them.

Most importantly, buckle up!

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Do Tell: What is the Craziest thing you Have Ever Done in a Car

DearSugar — Wed, 11 Jul 2007 07:00:00 -0700

We all know that driving can be incredibly dangerous. According to AAA, it's the number one cause of death among teenagers yet 61% of teenagers that were recently surveyed admitted to participating in risky behavior behind the wheel. Driving distracted, talking on your cell phone, putting on your make up, eating, doctoring up your coffee, kissing your boyfriend, gossiping with friends, laughing, etc. are all things that jeopardize your safety and the safety of those with whom you share the open road. Even though we know it's wrong, I'm sure we've all done our fair share of wild things behind the wheel, so ladies, do tell, what's the craziest thing you have done in a car?

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Dear Poll: What Celebrity Do you Wish Taught you How to Drive?

DearSugar — Mon, 02 Apr 2007 11:16:09 -0700

Do you remember learning how to drive? It felt like the most exciting time in your life, just months away from freedom behind the wheel, but if your experience was anything like mine, you would go back in time and opt for a different teacher. Every time I pulled off the clutch too soon, I could see my father's blood pressure climbing higher and higher. If you could have picked your driving coach, who would you choose?Source

Dear Poll: What Celebrity Do you Wish Taught you How to Drive?

Jay Leno: He's a car fanatic so I'm sure he could teach me a thing or two

Jesse James: He literally knows cars inside and out

Will Ferrell: He would bring an element of fun to the whole experience

Frankie Muniz: He seems like he would be the most patient

Patrick Dempsey: He's hot and he has race car experience

Other: Please share!

Dear Poll: Do Stars Get Preferential Driving Treatment?

DearSugar — Wed, 28 Mar 2007 14:45:00 -0700

We hear of celebrities getting in a car accident, or getting pulled over for DUI charges almost every day. Lindsay Lohan is notorious for "paparazzi generated" fender benders and her pal Paris Hilton is constantly being photographed driving away from night clubs with friends piled into every crevice of her vehicle. Fame seems to buy you a ticket to ride in Hollywood, which doesn't provide the younger generation with any sense of consequence. Just yesterday, Jessica Smith, 19, from MTV's Laguna Beach, joined many of her peers in the "under arrest club" after being cited for driving under the influence and causing an injury crash in LA. So all you drivers out there, do you think celebrities get preferential treatment from law enforcement simply because they are in the public eye? Source

Dear Poll: Do Stars Get Preferential Driving Treatment?

Agree

Disagree

Other: Please share!