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 <title>Dear Poll: Do You Ever Cry For No Reason? </title>
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 <description>&lt;!-- no strip poll --&gt;&lt;!-- no rss --&gt;&lt;div id=&quot;epoll-view-2377263&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;script type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt;new Ajax.Request(&#039;/epoll/view/2377263&#039;,{method:&#039;get&#039;,onSuccess:function(transport){var epoll=$(&#039;epoll-view-2377263&#039;);epoll.update(transport.responseText);}});&lt;/script&gt;&lt;noscript&gt;&lt;!-- /no rss --&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/42_2008/be6053cd9e156481_Women-Upset.xlarger.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;left image xlarger&quot; height=&quot;400&quot; width=&quot;266&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;The other day my friend told me that during her fitness class, she suddenly and without cause just burst into tears, forcing her to leave early, and obviously making her feel very embarrassed. When I asked her what had happened, she said she didn’t know. She wasn’t dealing with PMS, but it was as if at that moment she just couldn&#039;t hold in the tears. I know I’ve had spontaneous crying fits. What about you?&lt;/p&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;0&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Yes, it actually happens fairly often. &lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;1&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; I might do it every once and a while, but not often. &lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;2&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; No. If I’m crying, I know why. &lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;3&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Other — Please share. &lt;/label&gt;
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 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/crying">crying</category>
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 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Emotions">Emotions</category>
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 <pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 09:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Relationship Protocol: Does He Cry in Front of You? </title>
 <link>http://dearsugar.com/1902257</link>
 <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/35_2008/stk31328mls_0.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;right image preview&quot; height=&quot;355&quot; width=&quot;350&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Often, there’s a social stigma attached to men who cry. But of course, men get sad, too, and sometimes that sadness is reflected in tears. I mean, they’re only human.  Most guys are more apt to keep this act to themselves, so when they enter into a relationship with someone they can trust, it can be a relief to have a literal shoulder to cry on. So does your significant other cry in front of you or does he keep his tears private, behind closed doors?&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 12:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Which Movie Is the Biggest Tearjerker? </title>
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;0&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; The Lion King&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;1&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Steel Magnolias&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;2&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; P.S. I Love You&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;3&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; My Girl&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;4&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; A Walk to Remember&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;5&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; The Notebook&lt;/label&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 10:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>The Movies That Make You Cry</title>
 <link>http://dearsugar.com/slideshow/1891511</link>
 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;/slideshow/1891511?page=0&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/35_2008/Poll.xlarge_1.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;The Movies That Make You Cry&quot; title=&quot;The Movies That Make You Cry&quot;  class=&quot;image xlarge inline left&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;As it turns out, we&#039;re all a bunch of saps when it comes to just about anything emotional in a movie. But &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/1885455&quot;&gt;among the movies you mentioned,&lt;/a&gt; a few seemed to really stand out. So check out my compilation of the six movies that make you pull out the tissue box, and cast your vote to decide which is the absolute most likely to make your eyes red rimmed and your nose run.  

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 <pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 10:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Do Tell: What Movie Moment Makes You Cry Every Time? </title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/34_2008/AA003713.preview.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;right image preview&quot; height=&quot;412&quot; width=&quot;300&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;I’m a sucker for a good drama, and when the seriously sad stuff gets ramped up, I have no shame in just letting the tears dribble down my face. But lately, it’s not just the dramatic moments that get me going; it’s the funny ones too. Something about the goofy, light-hearted scenes &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/1874554&quot; &gt;makes me nostalgic&lt;/a&gt; for old friends and being a kid again. I’m sure there are a few of you out there like me, so do tell, what movie moment makes you cry each and every time? &lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 10:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Where Do You Stand: Crying at Work</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/29_2008/crying.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;left outline outline image preview&quot; width=&quot;350&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Generally speaking, women are more emotional than men, but there is a time and a place to let your feelings show. Since life doesn&#039;t stop just because we are at work, sometimes a bad day at the office can be more about personal strife than bad numbers. On the other hand, getting emotional over poor performance isn&#039;t all that uncommon yet we all know shedding a tear in front of co-workers, superiors, and subordinates might not be the best idea. No one wants to look weak or be seen as overly emotional in the work place, but sometimes you just can&#039;t help it! I&#039;ve let my emotions get the best of me before, but tell me where you stand on crying at work? Does the idea of letting your emotions show deserve the bad wrap it has? &lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Fri, 18 Jul 2008 12:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Dear Poll: Are You More of a Crier the Older You Get?</title>
 <link>http://dearsugar.com/1682029</link>
 <description>&lt;!-- no strip poll --&gt;&lt;!-- no rss --&gt;&lt;div id=&quot;epoll-view-1682029&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;script type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt;new Ajax.Request(&#039;/epoll/view/1682029&#039;,{method:&#039;get&#039;,onSuccess:function(transport){var epoll=$(&#039;epoll-view-1682029&#039;);epoll.update(transport.responseText);}});&lt;/script&gt;&lt;noscript&gt;&lt;!-- /no rss --&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;After the &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/tag/sex+and+the+city+movie&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Sex and the City&lt;/a&gt; screening last week, several Sugar girls admitted that the movie made them cry. The consensus seemed to be that even those of us who never cried much when we were younger now get choked up very easily by TV shows, weddings, songs — you name it.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I think that many women &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/tags/crying&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;cry more often&lt;/a&gt; as we get older.  Maybe it&#039;s hormonal, but it seems to happen to women in their late 20s and on. I&#039;m wondering if this is common: Have you noticed that you cry more during movies, TV shows, and weddings as you get older?&lt;/p&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;0&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Yes! I never used to cry during movies and now I do all the time.&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;1&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; I have always been a crier!&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;2&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Nah — I never cry in movies. &lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;3&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; No, but then again, I&#039;m still pretty young.&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;4&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Other (tell me below)&lt;/label&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 03 Jun 2008 09:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Dear Quiz: Are You Overly Sensitive?</title>
 <link>http://dearsugar.com/node/1599211</link>
 <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/19_2008/200306144-001.preview.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;left image preview&quot; height=&quot;450&quot; width=&quot;300&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Though being in touch with your emotions and knowing how to communicate them is a great trait, letting your emotions get the best of you can lead to more trouble and stress than it&#039;s worth.  We all have our &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/1054420&quot; &gt;soft spots&lt;/a&gt;, but having a thick skin is important, too, otherwise you can end up an emotional wreck. Obviously, some of us are &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/1115452&quot; &gt;more sensitive than others&lt;/a&gt;, so take this quiz to see if you&#039;re too sensitive!&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2008 13:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Dear Poll: Do You Prefer to Cry Alone or With Company? </title>
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 <description>&lt;!-- no strip poll --&gt;&lt;!-- no rss --&gt;&lt;div id=&quot;epoll-view-1579494&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;script type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt;new Ajax.Request(&#039;/epoll/view/1579494&#039;,{method:&#039;get&#039;,onSuccess:function(transport){var epoll=$(&#039;epoll-view-1579494&#039;);epoll.update(transport.responseText);}});&lt;/script&gt;&lt;noscript&gt;&lt;!-- /no rss --&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/17_2008/74583630.preview.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;left image preview&quot; height=&quot;235&quot; width=&quot;350&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Nearly all of us have &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/1555959&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;cried in the past month&lt;/a&gt;, which leads me to believe that we’re a group of women who know the importance of giving into our emotions. However, the act of crying is surely a different thing for all of us.  Some of us might like to cry completely alone, only with our &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/1084885&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;sad songs&lt;/a&gt; to comfort us, while others may need the warmth of a shoulder to cry on. So when it comes to crying, which do you prefer?&lt;/p&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;0&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; I prefer crying alone; I never intentionally cry in front of someone else. &lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;2&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; It just depends on my mood and what I’m crying about.  &lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;3&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Undecided — I&#039;ll explain.&lt;/label&gt;
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 <pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 16:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Dear Poll: When Was the Last Time You Cried? </title>
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&lt;p&gt;I don’t cry &lt;i&gt;a lot&lt;/i&gt;, but every once and a while I let it all out — hey, everyone needs a good cry sometimes, right? But I was talking to my friend and she can’t remember crying &lt;i&gt;once&lt;/i&gt; in the past five years! Even when she feels really sad, she just can&#039;t cry. So let me ask you, when was he last time you cried?&lt;/p&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;0&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Oh, in the past week!&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;1&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Sometime within the past month.&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;2&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; In the last six months.&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;3&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Within the past year.&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;4&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Over a year ago.  &lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;5&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; I can’t even remember when.  &lt;/label&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I’m not going to lie, I’ve walked out of a salon, got in my car, and burst into tears. I hope I’m not alone in having one of these mini breakdowns so ladies, what I want to know is, have you ever cried over a completely terrible cut job? &lt;/p&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;0&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Yes&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;2&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; I haven&#039;t actually cried, but I&#039;ve wanted to. &lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;3&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Other — I&#039;ll explain below&lt;/label&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2008 13:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/users/1/12981/47_2007/sleep.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;outline right image preview&quot; height=&quot;451&quot; width=&quot;300&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/766346&quot; &gt;Dreams&lt;/a&gt; can be so bizarre and seem so real. There have been times when I&#039;ve dreamt about something horrible happening in my life, like being lost or someone passing away. In my dream I&#039;m crying, but then I start crying for real, and my sobbing actually wakes me up. It&#039;s such a strange feeling to wake up so sad and scared, but such a relief to realize that it wasn&#039;t real.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&#039;ve also had dreams where something funny happens, and I wake up laughing hysterically. It&#039;s almost as good as &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/669685&quot; &gt;having an orgasm in your sleep&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So what about you? Have you ever woken yourself up laughing or crying?&lt;/p&gt;
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/users/1/12981/43_2007/cry.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;outline left image preview&quot; height=&quot;437&quot; width=&quot;300&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;I am such a sucker for romantic comedies. I get all into the lovey-dovey storylines and always end up sobbing at one part or another. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I happen to think they&#039;re great movies to see with a new guy since they let you get a sense of how sensitive and carefree he is. You can see if you both laugh at the same parts, or if he has no sense of humor whatsoever.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But, what if you happened to glance over at a particularly touching scene, and saw your guy shed a tear? How would you feel? And what do you think about guys who cry openly? Do you love that they&#039;re not afraid to express their feelings, or do you think it&#039;s a sign of weakness?&lt;/p&gt;
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/users/1/12981/26_2007/cry.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;outline left image preview&quot; height=&quot;200&quot; width=&quot;300&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Women cry more than men - that&#039;s a known fact.  We are more emotional and we don&#039;t hide our feelings.  Whether we are  touched by a TV show, feeling overjoyed at a wedding, overwhelmed with work, or on a &lt;a href=&quot;/313330&quot; &gt;PMS&lt;/a&gt; rollercoaster ride, we&#039;re bound to shed a few tears here and there. A man named Dr. William Frey actually conducted a study to figure out on average, how often women cry in 1 month.  So I want to know...&lt;br /&gt;
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