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Getting Noisy in the Bedroom

DearSugar — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 07:00:00 -0700

A recent post on About.com's Sexuality Blog considers the moans we make when we're getting it on. The post specifically recalls a study completed by Dr. Roy Levin, a sexologist, who determined that there were many reasons to make noise while in the throws of passion. According to the post, Levin's list of common motives include:

Conveying information to our partner about our arousal levels, what we like, and what we don’t.

Increasing our sexual arousal levels and/or that of our partner(s).

Enhancing the experience of pleasure (referred to as “hedonic amplification”).

Facilitating other arousal systems.

Adding to Levin's findings, the blog also mentions physical exertion as a possible and more basic explanation for noise during intercourse, likening sexy moans to the grunts of tennis players. Whatever the case may be, there's something extremely intimate about the noises of lovemaking that most people either find incredibly sexy or uncomfortable and awkward. I think it can be a bit of both depending on who it's coming from!

So ladies, what are your thoughts on being verbal during sex? Do you tend to be noisy? Or, are you as quiet as possible? And which do you prefer your partner be?

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Sex: Morning vs. Evening

DearSugar — Wed, 23 Apr 2008 13:00:00 -0700

Some people like morning sex better than evening sex — it's an ongoing debate that I could talk about all day long. It all boils down to personal preference so I thought it'd be fun to list the pros and cons of each! Now these are just my opinions, so tell me what you think in the comments below. Are you more of a morning person or do you enjoy sex at night more?

	Pros	Cons
Morning Sex	It's a relaxing and fun way to wake up (so much better than an alarm clock). Since your mind and body are still sleepy and dreamy, all your physical sensations will feel more intense. Since it's a workout, all those released endorphins are way better than a cup of coffee!	Since there's not much time for foreplay, morning sex usually just ends up being a quickie, which can leave you sexually frustrated and late for work. Since many women feel self-conscious about what they look like, the morning light might be a deterrent. Morning breath is not the biggest turn on, at least in my book! If you're not a morning person, you may be too tired and cranky to want to have sex.

OK, so what about evening sex? To see the list

Do Tell: Does Size Matter?

DearSugar — Wed, 31 Oct 2007 07:00:00 -0700

Some people say it's not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean that counts. Others strongly disagree, so ladies, do tell, does size matter?

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Dear Poll: Do You Like Men With Gray Hair?

DearSugar — Mon, 29 Oct 2007 09:00:00 -0700

I think gray-haired men can be incredibly sexy. Salt and pepper is my favorite, especially on a beard. When a man embraces his gray, I think it exudes confidence, character and wisdom.On the other hand, some women don't find it attractive at all. They view gray hair as an indication of old age, so ladies, tell me, do you find men with gray hair attractive or do you feel it ages them a bit too much for your liking? Source

Dear Poll: Do You Like Men With Gray Hair?

I love gray hair; it's a total turn on!

I am not a fan; I would much rather have my man cover his gray.

A little salt and pepper is sexy, but all over gray, no thanks.

Other - Please share!

Dear Poll: Do You Prefer a Man or Woman Gyno?

DearSugar — Tue, 16 Oct 2007 13:00:00 -0700

Visiting the gyno is never fun, but liking your doctor can make it a whole lot less painful. Some women feel that having a female doctor is the only way to go: they know about the woman's body first hand, they can sympathize with everything you're experiencing, and they are easier to talk to, but other women are more old fashioned and feel a male physician is more trustworthy, so ladies, tell me which sex do you prefer? Do you like going to a male or female gynecologist? Source

Dear Poll: Do You Prefer a Man or Woman Gyno?

Female: I want to be able to talk candidly to someone that has been there and done that.

Male: I am just more comfortable having a male doctor.

I don't care either way.

Dear Poll: Do You Date the Same Type?

DearSugar — Mon, 15 Oct 2007 13:00:00 -0700

I have finally broken my spell, but there was a while there when I seemed to date the same type of guy over and over again, even though I knew they were not good for me. They were all Leos with very strong personalities, slightly cocky, and they all loved to played games. I think everyone has a "type" of guy they like, so what I want to know is, do you tend to date the same type of guy over and over again? Source

Dear Poll: Do You Date the Same Type?

Yes: I am only attracted to one kind of guy. I totally have a type!

No: I don't discriminate!

I'm with Dear. I used to have a type but have since broken the cycle and dated men out of my comfort zone, and it's working!

Other: Please share!

You Don't Need Permission to . . .

DearSugar — Fri, 23 Feb 2007 12:00:00 -0800

like the things you like!