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Sunday Confessional: She Knew He Had Herpes and Didn't Tell Me

Aug 17 2008 - 9:00am by DearSugar

Six months ago I started dating my girl friend's male roommate. At the time, my friend warned me that although her roommate was a good friend, he was a notoriously bad boyfriend. I explained to her that I just wanted to have fun, but she still acted weird about it. Five months in, I learned he was hanging out with a lot of other girls, so we decided to end things. I was disappointed it didn't work out, but I knew it wasn't meant to be. A few weeks ago I found out that I have genital herpes. I knew immediately it was from him — I've only been with one other guy who was also a virgin. I had asked him before we slept together if he had been tested, and he said he was totally clean. Obviously I was very upset by the news and confronted him. Naturally, he claimed that I must have picked it up from some other guy. When I came crying to my friend, she was extremely distressed by what he had said. Apparently, he had confided in her a long time ago that he had herpes, but asked her to keep it a secret. When I heard this I was furious. I know that they're good friends, but I couldn't believe she'd kept that from me when she knew I was sleeping with him! I feel beyond betrayed, but she says she "tried" to warn me. Is her omission of the truth forgivable? Source

Sunday Confessional: She Knew He Had Herpes and Didn't Tell Me

Forgive?

Not forgive?

Undecided

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Dear Poll: Have You Ever Had a Rumor Spread About You?

Aug 12 2008 - 2:00pm by DearSugar

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Dear Poll: Have You Ever Had a Rumor Spread About You?

Although it would be nice to think that the world of rumors and talking behind someone’s back is left in the halls of our high schools, I think we all know that’s just not the case. In fact, most workplaces are rife with gossip as are many circles of friends. That said, not all gossip is bad; some rumors are simply a matter of misinformation. Either way, they can hurt so tell me, have you ever had one spread about you?Source

Dear Poll: Have You Ever Had a Rumor Spread About You?

I have, and it was a very negative experience.

Yea, but it wasn’t a big deal.

Not that I know of!

Other — I'll explain.

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Where Do You Stand? Lying to your Family

Aug 12 2008 - 1:00pm by DearSugar

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Where Do You Stand? Lying to your Family

My dad once told me about a college friend of his that dropped out of school his junior year but never told his parents. They continued to give him money to pay for his tuition and on graduation day, he rented a cap and gown and walked in the commencement line with the rest of his class. Since I'm so close with my family, I couldn't even imagine living a facade like he did, but I think lying to family members is more common than not.

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Sunday Confessional: I've Been Faking Orgasms Our Entire Relationship!

Aug 3 2008 - 9:00am by DearSugar

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Sunday Confessional: I've Been Faking Orgasms Our Entire Relationship!

My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for over five months. I'm very happy with where we are as couple except for one area: our sex life. My boyfriend just doesn't do it for me! I'm completely attracted to him, but his moves just don't get me to where I need to go. It's partially my fault; I've never communicated my likes and dislikes, instead, I've been faking orgasms (I know, I know) since day one. At first it was just a matter of not ruining the night, but after a while it would have just been too weird if I didn't (pretend) orgasm anymore. I guess I just figured it would work itself out, but it hasn't. So now, in all these months, I haven't had one real orgasm and I can't take it anymore! I am satisfied in every other way, and I want to make it work, but I can't even comprehend what his reaction might be if I tell him the truth. He's a kind man, but he's still very prideful. Do you think he could ever forgive me for this? Source

Sunday Confessional: I've Been Faking Orgasms Our Entire Relationship!

Forgive?

Not forgive?

Undecided — Please explain!

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You Asked: I Exposed a Cheating Woman to Her Husband

Jul 30 2008 - 5:00pm by DearSugar

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You Asked: I Exposed a Cheating Woman to Her Husband

Dear Sugar, During my husband's first marriage, he had a long-distance (but full-on sexual) affair with a married woman. After we were married, I discovered that they were still in contact. I told him it had to end immediately, and he stopped contacting her.

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Sunday Confessional: She Knew He Had Herpes and Didn't Tell Me

Dear Poll: Have You Ever Had a Rumor Spread About You?

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Sunday Confessional: I've Been Faking Orgasms Our Entire Relationship!

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