Divine Caroline and I are back with another edition of the
4-Way. Enjoy!
Dear 4-Way,
I just broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago. Honestly, the relationship had been over for a while, so by the time the breakup actually went down, it was pretty friendly; we still talk all the time.
Divine Caroline and I are back with another edition of the
4-Way. Enjoy!
Dear 4-Way,
Recently, I broke up with a guy that I’d been dating for three months, but I’ve known him for six years. I am deeply in love with him, and we only broke up because we had to move away from each other because of jobs.
Divine Caroline and I are back with another edition of the
4-Way. Enjoy!
Dear 4-Way,
Do you think it’s a good idea to find out how many sexual partners the person you’re dating has had? If the answer is “yes,” when in the relationship is the best time to ask?—LL, Los Angeles, CA
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Dear 4-Way,
I’m online dating, and I’ve met the standard amount of freaks, guys looking to cheat on their wives, and jerks who just want to get laid. I’ve met some nice guys, too. But I’ve noticed that after a few dates with someone nice who shows some promise, he gets back online — even though we’re still going out and things seem to be going well.

I'm thrilled to announce a new partnership with the folks at
Divine Caroline! Once a week I will be the fifth voice of their 4-Way feature, which offers four different perspectives (a gay man, a gay woman, a straight man, and a straight woman) on the same question. I hope you all enjoy this new angle on getting advice as much as I'm enjoying bring it to you!
Dear 4-Way,
I’ve been dating a great guy for about 10 months.