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Is It Hard to Apologize When You're in the Wrong?

DearSugar — Tue, 02 Dec 2008 11:00:00 -0800

The drama between Lauren and Audrina over Justin Bobby continued last night on The Hills. Even though Audrina finally came to the realization that the rumor about her best friend and boyfriend was just that, she was still pretty apprehensive about apologizing to Lauren. Admitting your wrongdoings can be a daunting task, but tell me, have you ever been afraid or nervous to apologize when you were in the wrong like Audrina was last night?

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Has a Friend Ever Falsely Accused You of Something?

DearSugar — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 11:00:00 -0800

Last night's episode of The Hills was one of the most dramatic yet. We saw Lauren and Audrina's spat over Justin Bobby unfold before the show aired, but watching how it really went down made me realize just how ridiculous Audrina's accusations were. While I understand her reasons behind confronting both Justin and Lauren, their first denial should have been good enough for Audrina to simply drop the issue. I've never been falsely accused of something by a friend before, so I can only guess how frustrating it must be to defend your word against someone else's. Have any of you ever been accused by a friend of doing something you had absolutely nothing to do with?

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Food Network's New Show Is Not About Competitive Eating

partysugar — Tue, 19 Aug 2008 10:51:22 -0700

Yesterday the Internet was abuzz with rumors about the Food Network's new competitive eating show.

However, I spoke with a source at the network today, and she informed me that, contrary to gossip, the Food Network is not filming a competitive eating series. According to PR manager Lisa Krueger, the show is more like a culinary version of The Amazing Race. Called Eat the Clock, Krueger says it will feature "two teams who will race through a variety of culinary hot spots and compete in challenges for the ultimate chowhound smack-down." Apparently the words "ultimate chowhound smack-down" were mistaken for competitive eating.

While I find competitive eating to be quite disgusting, a show about it has the potential to be a hit. Still, I'm interested to see what Eat the Clock is about. Will you watch? Are you more inclined to watch if competitive eating were involved?

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Dear Poll: Have You Ever Had a Rumor Spread About You?

DearSugar — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 14:00:00 -0700

Although it would be nice to think that the world of rumors and talking behind someone’s back is left in the halls of our high schools, I think we all know that’s just not the case. In fact, most workplaces are rife with gossip as are many circles of friends. That said, not all gossip is bad; some rumors are simply a matter of misinformation. Either way, they can hurt so tell me, have you ever had one spread about you?Source

Dear Poll: Have You Ever Had a Rumor Spread About You?

I have, and it was a very negative experience.

Yea, but it wasn’t a big deal.

Not that I know of!

Other — I'll explain.

Is the John Edwards Love Child Story Newsworthy?

CitizenSugar — Sat, 26 Jul 2008 07:00:34 -0700

OK, I'm sure you've heard. John Edwards may or may not have a mistress and a love child. I've had my fingers crammed in my ears, doing the la-la-la-can't-hear-you song, all week. But now this weird meta story has developed from the whole affair (ahem): should the media be covering it — and if not, what does that mean? The story was originally broken by the National Enquirer — Edwards was supposedly caught visiting his mistress and love child at an LA hotel. (The reporters have since filed criminal charges.) In the double whammy of who the source is, and the scandalous topic, some news outlets have run with it, some dropped it like a hot potato, and some have been banned from talking about it. Fox ran an update yesterday with the hotel guard saying that when Edwards found out about the reporters, "his face just went totally white." Some at Slate are asking why the MSM isn't covering the story, citing a double standard (why Larry Craig and not Edwards). The Daily Kos says it's right not to cover it considering the source, and the LA Times issued a memo banning their bloggers from writing about the story. Is it a cover-up or a double standard? Does the story need more investigation? Or is it just good judgment to let the story go?Source

Is the John Edwards Love Child Story Newsworthy?

Of course! It deserves investigation — all leads should be followed, it's good reporting.

Not in the least. It's just garbage, and I'm glad not to read about it.

We heard enough about what Jesse Jackson said about nuts — this must be news, too!

Other. I'll sneak into the comments and leave my opinion.

Sunday Confessional: I Spread a Dirty Secret

DearSugar — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 09:00:00 -0700

I'm close with my team at work; we often meet for happy hours and even get together on the weekends. About a year ago we hired a new girl who became fast friends with the whole group, including me. But a few months ago something in her changed. Now I find that she's increasingly competitive with me, but not in a professional sense. Instead, she's competitive when it comes to just about everything else. When I get gleeful about losing five pounds, she starts working out every day and comes in bragging about the 10 pounds she just lost. If I host a cocktail party at my house, within weeks she's planning her own and literally tallying the amount of people that comes to each. Most recently, she started flirting with a bartender that we see often whom she knows I have been pursuing. Needless to say, she drives me absolutely nuts — I feel like I'm in high school again!She also tends to drink way too much when we go out, and usually ends up sleeping with someone (it's been a coworker on more than one occasion). For whatever reason, she's inclined to confide in me about her sexual escapades so I usually know what everyone else on our team is just speculating about. Recently she told me that she slept with one of our biggest clients after a dinner meeting — a big no-no at our company. This time I was so fed up with her that I decided to spread it around the office. It felt satisfying at the time, but now her job's on the line. It's not like I made something up, but I still feel guilty that she might lose her job. Can I be forgiven for spreading her secret around? Source

Sunday Confessional: I Spread a Dirty Secret

Forgive?

Not forgive?

Undecided

Handle This: Someone Spread a Mean Rumor

DearSugar — Tue, 26 Feb 2008 11:00:00 -0800

You and your new guy agreed that you would wait a while to have sex for the first time, but your relationship continues to get stronger and stronger. Just when you think you guys are finally getting to the exclusive couple level, he starts acting strange; it seems like he's slightly less affectionate towards you. You try not to worry about it, but when a friend approaches you about something they heard through the grapevine, the pieces start to fall into place.

Your friend reveals to you that he heard from another individual — one that was in the same fraternity as your man — that you had an STI. You're completely shocked as you've never had an STI before, and have never confided in anyone about the possibility of having one.

You realize that your guy has "known" about this ugly rumor for the past couple weeks. You're not only embarrassed that he obviously believes it, but angry that he didn't talk to you about it. There's no way to set the story straight without a confrontation, so how would you handle this?

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Is Celeb Pregnancy Everybody's Business?

babysugar — Wed, 20 Feb 2008 09:00:15 -0800

Hollywood is baby crazy and it leaves people wanting more. Before expectant moms are ready to announce their pregnancies, rumors fly about suspicious wardrobes and potential baby bumps. Avril Lavigne and hubby Deryck Whibley were recently spotted at Kitson Kids buying up a load of tot goodies. Minnie Driver and Kate Hudson have also been scrutinized as of late.As a mom, I'd be less than excited if someone pointed out a bulging belly that was nothing other than flab! But if I was actually pregnant, I think I'd be rather excited.What do you think of the expectant rumor mill? Flynet

Is Celeb Pregnancy Everybody's Business?

I love knowing who might be pregnant.

Everyone should mind their own business.

Other – leave comment below.

Who Would You Pick As Your Mate?

DearSugar — Thu, 17 Jan 2008 09:00:00 -0800

It has been rumored for years now that Tom Cruise was shopping for a wife, so to speak, before he nabbed Katie, and according to Andrew Morton, the author of Tom's unauthorized biography, Jennifer Garner was one of his top choices. Of course this can't make Katie feel very good, but the concept is pretty wild if you think about it. Even though we all must decide who to marry, it's easier for someone as famous as Tom Cruise to have his pick of the litter. For the sake of playing house, if you could handpick your mate, who would you choose?

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The How-To Lounge: Coping With Office Gossip

DearSugar — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 09:00:00 -0700

Office gossip is inevitable, but you can find yourself in deep water if you're in the middle of it, so here are some tips on staying out of the firestorm at work.

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