
It might not be our best look, but we all have one: an orgasm face! Even if you've never seen your own, chances are you've seen your partner's — that unique mixture of deep concentration, relaxation, and release. But like I said, it's not always pretty, which could pose a problem while you're in the act of love-making.

Dear Sugar,
I'm a 47-year-old woman and I've only had sex with my first love — my husband of 31 years. The reason I'm writing is to ask if it's normal to only be able to climax in one position. I can only orgasm when I'm on top which makes me think I'm missing out on so many other fun positions.

Weigh in and tell us if you forgive or not forgive this
True Confession.
"I told my boyfriend of a year that he is bad in bed; which he is. Even though I knew that comment would hurt him, I felt I had no choice.

Dear Sugar,
I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half now. He had never been with a girl before me, and as a result of his lack of experience, he's never given me an orgasm. Since he's inexperienced, I don't think he realizes just how much effort it takes to help a woman climax.

Over the weekend, I decided to take advantage of the damp weather with a trip to the movies to see
Nick and Norah's Infinite Playlist. I liked it and applauded it for doing something most teen comedies these days don't do: let teenagers have imperfections and real insecurities. In the story, it's revealed that Norah is unable to have an orgasm.

Unfortunately I'm not referring to spontaneous orgasms experienced solely from walking — although that would be amazing — I'm talking about how the way in which a woman walks can give insight into her ability to reach orgasm. A recent
study shows that if a woman walks with an energetic, flowy stride, she's most likely having a great time between the sheets. She'll appear to walk with ease, without tensed muscles, and with a sort of freedom or sensuality.

Dear Sugar,
I've never had an orgasm. Not with another person or on my own. All the advice I find just tells me to relax and spend some time alone getting to know myself.

Obviously we all have
a lot to say about orgasms, and why shouldn't we? They're amazing. But I wonder what you really know about this particularly complex and pleasurable ability of our bodies.

I'm a sentimental person, and I have a special place in my heart for "firsts." First slow dance, first date,
first French kiss, first love, and who could forget her first time having sex?
I'm sure you remember such unforgettable milestones like these too, so what about your first orgasm?

My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for over five months. I'm very happy with where we are as couple except for one area: our sex life. My boyfriend just doesn't do it for me!