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Dear Poll: Do You Like to Stand Out in a Crowd?

DearSugar — Thu, 02 Oct 2008 16:00:00 -0700

I’m an observer by nature, but that's not to say I suddenly become shy in a group setting. In fact, I'm happy to be the leader of the pack now and then. Even so, the idea of having all eyes on me does send a shiver down my spine and get my heart racing. But some people are at their best when they can stand out in a crowd. Does that sound like you?Source

Dear Poll: Do You Like to Stand Out in a Crowd?

Yes — What’s wrong with a little attention!

I’m not against it, but you won’t see me trying to stand out.

No way — The best part of being in a crowd is that you get to blend in.

Other — Please share.

Relationship Protocol: Do You Mix His Friends With Yours?

DearSugar — Thu, 02 Oct 2008 15:00:00 -0700

Doing just about anything with a group can be tricky. The more people, the more opinions and personalities are butting up against one another. And combining two groups together can upset any kind of balance that’s already been achieved, which is often the case when you try to combine your friends with your boyfriend’s. Even so, I think it’s worth a try, since establishing a group of mutual friends is completely convenient when it comes to socializing. What do you think? Do you mix your friends with his? Or are they both fairly separate?

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The How-To Lounge: Going Out With a Group

DearSugar — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 07:00:00 -0700

Enjoying a night or weekend with a group is almost always a strange mix of fun and frustration. As exciting as a good group dynamic might be, it can also be difficult to manage. If everyone starts tugging in different directions, it’s not uncommon for tension to build. If you encounter your share of group outings, read my ideas for making them a bit easier and

Are You an Introvert or Extravert?

DearSugar — Wed, 05 Sep 2007 08:30:00 -0700

According to Myers-Briggs personality test, we are either naturally introverted or extraverted. It doesn't necessarily mean you either prefer hanging out with other people or by yourself - rather it refers to the determination of your source of energy. Check out this chart and tell me if you are an introvert or extravert.

Extroverts...	Introverts...
Tend to be more naturally active, expressive, social. They talk more than they listen. They think out loud. They act and then think. Are interested in many things, they have many hobbies. Can sometimes be easily distracted. Prefer being around people a lot. They have high amounts of energy. You are extraverted if being with people gets you excited and energizes you.	Tend to be more reserved, quiet, cautious. They listen more than they talk. They think quietly in their head. They think and then act. Are interested in fewer things, but with a greater amount of focus and depth. Have powers of high concentration. Feel comfortable being alone. They have quiet, calm energy. You are introverted if hanging out in a crowd makes you feel tired.

Are You an Introvert or Extravert?

Introvert

Extravert