http://dearsugar.com/ Just ask. en http://dearsugar.com/1874810 <p>If you've ever gone through a bad breakup, and I'm sure most of you have, then you know change is sometimes the best cure. Since packing your bags and running away from your problems isn't always possible or practical, a quick fix will usually do the trick. And a change that isn't too brash but will make a difference is, of course, getting a haircut! According to <a href="http://www.glamour.com/" target="_blank">Glamour</a> magazine, 31 percent of women polled admitted to chopping their hair after a breakup. While I've definitely had the urge to do so myself, luckily my hairdresser has always talked me down off the ledge. Sure, cutting your hair is a great way to let go of the past, and a great way to feel light and refreshed, but tell me, do you think it's a good idea or a bad idea to make a drastic change to your appearance when you're in such a fragile state?<br /> <span class="inline left"><img src="http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/34_2008/haircut.jpg" alt="" title="" class="outline image preview" width="507" height="337"></span></p> <p><a href="http://www.gettyimages.com" target="_blank">Source</a></p> http://dearsugar.com/1874810#comment Breakup change good idea or bad idea hair cut Relationships Tue, 19 Aug 2008 09:00:00 -0700 DearSugar http://dearsugar.com/1874810 http://dearsugar.com/1853631 <!-- no strip poll --><!-- no rss --><div id="epoll-view-1853631"></div><script type="text/javascript">new Ajax.Request('/epoll/view/1853631',{method:'get',onSuccess:function(transport){var epoll=$('epoll-view-1853631');epoll.update(transport.responseText);}});</script><noscript><!-- /no rss --><p><p><span class="inline left"><img src="http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/32_2008/skd223323sdc.preview.jpg" alt="" title="" class="left image preview" height="330" width="330"></span>We’ve had many discussions about friends with benefits here. Though many of us think <a href="http://dearsugar.com/578556" rel="nofollow">they’re a recipe for disaster</a>, I’m sure an equal number of people find themselves in the midst of one right now. Understandably, the opportunity for emotions to grow is certainly a point against such relationships. But what if you <i>want</i> emotions to get in the way? Some might say that as soon as you find yourself wanting more, you should hightail it out of your “friendly” situation. But maybe it's the perfect opportunity for something to develop, especially if both people feel it. What do you think?</p> <p><a href="http://www.gettyimages.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Source</a></p> </p><!-- no strip poll --><form action="/1853631" method="post" id="epoll_view_voting"> <div><div class="poll"> <div class="vote-form"> <div class="choices"><div class="form-item"> <label>Good Idea or Bad Idea: Becoming More Than Friends With Benefits</label> <div class="form-item"> <label class="option"><input type="radio" name="edit[choice]" value="0" class="form-radio" /> Good Idea — You already know the chemistry is there, so why not give it a shot?</label> </div> <div class="form-item"> <label class="option"><input type="radio" name="edit[choice]" value="1" class="form-radio" /> Bad Idea — Trying to change the rules of a relationship mid-game can end up being a disaster in the long run.</label> </div> <div class="form-item"> <label class="option"><input type="radio" name="edit[choice]" value="2" class="form-radio" /> Other — Please explain. </label> </div> </div> </div><input type="hidden" name="edit[nid]" id="edit-nid" value="1853631" /> <input type="submit" name="op" value="Vote" class="form-submit" /> </div><input type="hidden" name="edit[form_id]" id="edit-form_id" value="epoll_view_voting" /> </div> </div></form> <!-- no strip poll --></noscript><!-- no strip poll --> http://dearsugar.com/1853631#comment Dating friends with benefits good idea or bad idea Relationships Mon, 11 Aug 2008 09:00:00 -0700 DearSugar http://dearsugar.com/1853631