The great thing about a sexual fantasy is that it can be whatever we want it to be. The problem is that if a fantasy isn't in the realm of reality, it can be hard to act on, which is why many of our wild, crazy, whimsical, or just impossible ideas end up staying in the realm of make believe. And that's OK, but what I want to know is: Do you know what your man's number one fantasy is?
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Dear Sugar,
I'm usually OK with porn. I watch it myself and have watched it with former boyfriends however, my current boyfriend has always refused to let me watch his porn with him, and recently I learned why. The porn he watches is full of incredibly disturbing sado-masochistic porn, which I had no idea he was even slightly into.
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Dear Sugar,
I've been dating the most amazing guy for almost a year now. We are compatible on every level and our sex life is wonderful. Things are going so well that we plan to move in together at the end of the Summer and are considering marriage in the future.
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It’s always been assumed that every once and a while, men fantasize about another woman while having sex. But for women, fantasizing about someone else often leads to feelings of guilt and relationship insecurity. However, truth be told, just as a small crush is perfectly normal, so is fantasizing about someone else while doing the deed.
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Dear Sugar,
Ever since I was little girl, I've really been caught up in the idea of meeting a Prince Charming, having a great love story, and getting that storybook happy ending. Growing up I always had crushes, but I never had a real relationship. I figured that I just needed to mature in order to find my perfect love.
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The results are in, and I can't say that I'm too surprised that being dominated surpassed all the other choices with a whopping 53 percent victory. Though I must say that almost famous's fantasy, hot sex in Summer rain, certainly doesn't sound bad either! Perhaps we ladies are just more creative!
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In the March issue, Men's Health shares the top five female sexual fantasies as determined by a pretty hefty poll of 10,000 people. According to the results, the top female fantasies are actually the same as the top male fantasies — how convenient! While I'm thrilled that the article helps men figure out how to please their partners, it's hard to believe that we share the same fantasies.
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Though popular thought would like us to believe that only men think about sex throughout the day, I think there are some women out there, like DearSugar readers, who know differently. It's true, we have to think about sex all the time over here, but I wonder how many of us are truly lusting away in front of our computers or get the urge while running errands. Be honest ladies, how many times during the day do you actually think about engaging in a little nooky?
When it comes to sex, fantasies are nothing new. But what about relationship fantasies? While it's easy to guess that only single women are fantasizing about a larger than life or perfectly quaint relationship, I've found that many coupled women also spend a significant amount of time imagining completely nonsexual scenarios that either involve their own man under different circumstances or an entirely new person altogether. 
The upcoming fantasy movie Stardust first caught my eye because of the stellar cast (Michelle Pfeiffer, Robert DeNiro, Peter O'Toole, Ricky Gervais, and many others), and because of the whimsical atmosphere conveyed in the trailer. Knowing it's based on a Neil Gaiman novel only makes me more interested in the movie, which opens August 10.
Having posted a few things about the movie, I know some of you are major Gaiman fans or are otherwise seriously anticipating the film. 
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