
Dear Sugar,
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. For the past two months I have had dreams of catching him cheating on me and it's driving me to snoop on him. I look in his email, his Facebook account, and phone whenever I get a chance.

Earlier this week I came across an article from
The Huffington Post examining why men cheat. Referencing a recent
Oprah that showcased Dr. M.
Maxim magazine's mission was to help its male readers understand us women a little better, and I think it is accomplishing its goal! Asking what
chivalrous things you expect a man to do certainly struck a chord with all of you earlier this week, which leads me to believe that you're going to have plenty to say in response to this question, too.
So before
taking Maxim's survey, I have a question for you to answer right here!

Weigh in and tell us if you forgive or not forgive this
True Confession.
"I have some pretty strange friendships with the married men in my circle of friends. They tell me all about their affairs but I don't say anything to their wives.
Weigh in and tell us if you forgive or not forgive this
True Confession.
"I give up, I think my husband cheated on me again, but there's no hard proof. If I turn a blind eye and let him get away with it, am I excusing his behavior?

Recently you've had to cancel plans with your boyfriend a few times due to some school- and work-related issues. He's never been especially jealous, but the new school year must be bringing out his paranoid side. Each time you've changed plans, he's called to check up on you throughout the night.

Dear Sugar,
This issue has been bothering me for a couple of weeks now, and the guilt has been absolutely eating me up inside. A couple of weeks ago, a few friends of mine all got drunk (myself included) to celebrate our guy friend's return for the weekend. He has been dating a girl that I know for a few months, but he and I have always had a sort of thing for each other.

DearSugar and Holding Back Betsy need your help. She cheated on her boyfriend, but when she came clean, she wasn't 100 percent truthful in her story. She's still guilt-ridden, so should she broach the subject one more time and get everything off her chest, or should she just let it go?

Dear Sugar,
A few years ago I fell for my very best friend. We began dating, and not a week later, a serious crisis occurred in my family and I told him I could not start a relationship under such circumstances. We went our separate ways, and he was very bitter towards me for a while.

Weigh in and tell us if you forgive or not forgive this
True Confession.
"Yes, I cheated, and I'm glad I did. I finally got to be with a man that cares about me, rather than a man who just randomly talks to me about soccer and video games.