
Six months ago I started dating my girl friend's male roommate. At the time, my friend warned me that although her roommate was a good friend, he was a notoriously bad boyfriend. I explained to her that I just wanted to have fun, but she still acted weird about it.

Dear Sugar,
A friend of mine called me tonight to tell me I needed to get checked for an STI. She and I both had unprotected sex with the same guy, and her recent pap came back irregular. She hasn't been told what it is yet, but I'm worried that I have whatever it is.

Last week
TMZ captured Tila Tequila outing herself for not practicing safe sex. As we all know,
STIs are
running rampant. They are not something that should be taken lightly, or even joked about for that matter, which is why I'm pretty surprised that someone who is in the public eye would make a comment like that.

Just when you thought you knew about every
STI in the book, trichomoniasis shows up.
Trichomoniasis or "trich" is found more often in women than men, but affects both sexes. Caused by a parasite passed during vaginal intercourse, like most STIs, it's usually preventable with proper protection.

Whether you're into
one-night stands or not, a recent
study shows that men and women engage in them with completely different intentions. Guys are interested in just one thing, the sex (what a surprise!), whereas women yearn for the feeling of being desired and needed. Of course, guys end up getting what they crave, but most women just end up feeling used and emotionally crushed.

I don't know how many women I've talked to that say they'll engage in oral sex with a guy no problem, but if they're going to have sex, they make him get tested first. Um, hello?. For all those ladies out there with that mindset, I have four words for you — Gonorrhea of the Throat.

Assuming you aren't ready to have kids, you're most likely using some sort of birth control. But since
condoms are only 85 percent effective, and
IUCs and
the pill are 99 percent effective, there is that small chance you could still get pregnant. So with that said, waiting for your period to come can be a nerve-wracking event.
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After a few great weeks spending time together, you and your new guy have decided to take the plunge and become
exclusive. Naturally, to celebrate, you get busy but just a few days later, you suddenly have something strange going on downstairs. An emergency trip to the gyno reveals it's an
STI.

With
STIs becoming so prevalent, it's so important to get tested regularly. If you're unsure about how the doctor tests for them, it can make you so anxious that you won't even make an appointment so take this quiz and see if you know how doctors test for certain STIs. Hopefully it will put your mind at ease.
Source
Positive Step. NY Wants to Test Everyone in the Bronx For HIV
Although the rate of AIDS diagnosis is higher in Manhattan, the Bronx has New York's highest AIDS death rate — a figure health officials blame on people not getting tested until it's too late to manage the disease. In order to curb the graveness of an HIV diagnoses, the city has launched a campaign to test everyone in the Bronx.