
Over the weekend I asked you all to tell me
how important sex is in your relationship, and I was surprised to see that it's an infrequent act for many of you. Sure, once the honeymoon period subsides, it's normal for that initial lust to die down, but if you're not connecting physically, there must be other ways you stay in tune with one another. So ladies, tell me, how do you keep the fire, passion, and intimacy alive in your relationship when you're not getting it on?

After a month of dating, things have been getting hot and heavy with your new man. But just before things take off, he always puts a stop to them. You’re not opposed to
waiting longer to have sex, but you can’t help notice how quick he is to move things away from that territory.

Perhaps in this day and age when letters have become antiquated, and when a flux of anonymous emails, no matter how sweet, tend to seem creepy, the idea of an honest-to-goodness secret admirer no longer exists. But I’d like to think that it does — remember in Love Actually when
Keira Knightley’s character gets the knock at the door from her husband’s best friend with the cards confessing his love?
That’s romance! So what do you think; is this notion out of date, or have you ever had a secret admirer?

In the movies, romance is dozens of red roses, diamonds, sunsets, and surprise proposals. Sure, those things can be romantic in real life too, but we all know that romance is not so easily categorized, and it's often not even planned. Personally I think of romance as a feeling or a moment that leaves me breathless, rather than a specific action or item.

Whether it’s an anniversary celebration or just a time to reconnect, planning a romantic occasion for your significant other can be a lot of fun, and a great way to
ignite the fire. To see my tips for making your occasion as sweet (or spicy) as it can be, then .
- First off, it’s always a good idea to determine just how elaborate you want your romantic endeavor to be.
Listening to music can be an incredibly sensual experience, so it's no wonder it pairs so well with a hot and steamy makeout session. In fact, just the experience of creating the perfect lip-smacking playlist can be a turn on in itself. So here's my own personal list of the top 10 makeout session songs!

Even if you think
PDA is a good idea, there's a time and a place for it. When you're the touchy-feely couple in question, chances are you're too smitten to even notice, but you could indeed be offending those around you. I, for one, am totally OK with witnessing a couple embrace or share a passionate kiss, but anything beyond that just makes me uncomfortable; like I shouldn't be looking!

Although I think celebrating marriage anniversaries can be an important way to keep the romance alive, I’m not one to make a fuss over a relationship anniversary. I think learning to celebrate your relationship every day in the smallest ways is much more important than planning a special night or weekend once a year. However, I know that for many unmarried couples,
anniversary celebrations are very important, so what do you think?

Though love and dating can leave the best of us overwhelmed and totally confused, some people stay hopefully and hopelessly romantic no matter what. An appreciation of
old-fashioned chivalry is definitely a good thing, but let's face it, life is not a
fairytale. So are you in need of a reality check in the game of love? Take this quiz to find out!

It's great to see our friends happy in the romance department, and of course, it doesn’t hurt if they’re dating someone we happen to like a lot. But even though it may seem like we know our friends better than they know themselves, playing matchmaker can be tricky business. No one wants to be the cause of
horrific dating stories or worse, a broken heart.