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Relationship Protocol: What Holiday Tradition Have You Created?

DearSugar — Fri, 28 Nov 2008 08:00:00 -0800

I think one of the best parts about being in a relationship is creating new traditions together, unique to the life you live as a couple. Of course, incorporating each other's family traditions is always fun, but so is instating an after-Thanksgiving hike with your hubby every year or a putting up Christmas lights while eating your leftovers. If this is something you've done in your relationship, tell us, what holiday traditions have you created with your significant other?

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Relationship Protocol: How Do You Keep the Romance Alive When You're Not Getting It On?

DearSugar — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 06:00:00 -0800

Over the weekend I asked you all to tell me how important sex is in your relationship, and I was surprised to see that it's an infrequent act for many of you. Sure, once the honeymoon period subsides, it's normal for that initial lust to die down, but if you're not connecting physically, there must be other ways you stay in tune with one another. So ladies, tell me, how do you keep the fire, passion, and intimacy alive in your relationship when you're not getting it on?

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Relationship Protocol: When The Cat's Away, Do You Play?

DearSugar — Mon, 10 Nov 2008 10:00:00 -0800

Does the old saying when the cat's away, the mouse will play ring at all true in your relationship? It's a common notion that when a significant other is out of town, the other half gets a "hall pass." While I'm sure that's appealing to some, others might use that time apart to catch up on alone time, to get errands run, or to simply spend time with friends and family. So when it comes to your relationship, tell me, when the cat's away, do you play?

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Relationship Protocol: Are You Always in Touch?

DearSugar — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 21:13:40 -0800

Even if they're living under the same roof or have plans to meet up after work, I know many couples that still touch base multiple times throughout the day. I think it's really sweet, but communication overload can be irritating for friends and co-workers when the incessant phone calls become disruptive. When I'm in a relationship, I like to share all the excitement of my day with him in person, but what about you? Are you and your significant other in touch throughout the day? And if so, how often do you typically talk?

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Relationship Protocol: How Do You Handle Crises?

DearSugar — Fri, 31 Oct 2008 07:00:00 -0700

The strength of a relationship is put to the test when the going gets tough. As painful as a difficult situation can be, if you can make it through, then you'll know your relationship has grown. But reacting well to a crisis doesn’t come naturally to everyone, and is often something that must be learned over time. Has your relationship ever been challenged by an outside problem? How are you and your boyfriend when it comes to dealing with situations that are out of your control?

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Relationship Protocol: Are You Having More Sex These Days?

DearSugar — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 15:00:00 -0700

The word on the street is that couples are having more sex these days because of all the stress and overwhelming fear that's lingering in the air. And if you think about it, it makes perfect sense. Sex is a great stress reliever and it's the one thing that can make you feel utterly connected to someone — a comforting feeling during these uncertain times. Since I'm of the curious nature, tell me, are you and your significant other having more sex these days as a destress mechanism?

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Relationship Protocol: How Often Does He Compliment You?

DearSugar — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 09:00:00 -0700

There’s something extra meaningful when you get praise from a significant other. Of course, a compliment is always nice, but when it comes from your loved one, it tends to hold more meaning. That kind of positive energy really goes a long way in keeping the romance alive. How often do you get compliments and praise from your significant other?

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Relationship Protocol: Do You Compare Your Current Relationship to Your Past?

DearSugar — Fri, 24 Oct 2008 09:00:00 -0700

As far as sharing relationship histories with each other, I tend to believe that some things are better left unsaid. But just because you're not saying it, doesn't mean you're not thinking it. Considering your past relationships in contrast to your current situation can actually help to illuminate the good things you have now or the ways you've changed. On the other hand, there seems little reason to dwell on the past when you're building your new relationship in the present. So ladies, once you're in a new relationship, do you put your past out of your mind? Or do you find yourself naturally making comparisons between your current relationship and your previous ones?

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Relationship Protocol: What New Interests Have You Adopted?

DearSugar — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 13:00:00 -0700

As a relationship develops and your life begins to blend more with your significant other's, it’s likely you'll find your interests expanding to include some of his. At first it might just be a matter of exposure, but after a while his hobby can turn into yours, and vice versa. But the same goes for habits. I’ve seen plenty of night owls turn into morning people when dating a morning person or a health nut start appreciating the junk foods that her significant other loves. Ladies, what about you and your man? Have you guys picked up any of the other's habits or interests?

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Relationship Protocol: What Chores Do You Do as a Team?

DearSugar — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 17:00:00 -0700

I hate doing chores — what a way to ruin a good weekend or evening! I always get them done, but I do find myself moping through them most of the time. I can certainly see why it’s so appealing to share the burden with someone else or at least have company while you’re stuck doing it. Having a partner to help handle life’s daily chores and weekly errands is definitely a perk of being in a relationship. And when you live together, it especially comes in handy. What chores do you do as a team? Or do you each do your own thing?

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