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 <title>The WB Celebrates Turkey Day with Friends, The OC, and More</title>
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&lt;p&gt;Over the course of its 10 seasons, &lt;a href=&quot;http://buzzsugar.com/tag/friends&quot; &gt;Friends&lt;/a&gt; served up some pretty classic Thanksgiving episodes. Now, with this year&#039;s turkey day fast approaching, &lt;a href=&quot;http://thewb.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;The WB.com&lt;/a&gt; has put all nine of the Thanksgiving episodes &lt;a href=&quot;http://thewb.com/shows/friends/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;together in one place&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Yes, that includes the football game episode from the third season and — maybe biggest of all — the Brad Pitt appearance from season eight, which not only just shook things up at the friends&#039; Thanksgiving dinner but also got Pitt an Emmy nomination.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And that&#039;s just a little taste of what the online network is offering for the holiday. There&#039;s also a Thanksgiving- and food-themed &lt;a href=&quot;http://thewb.com/games/friends&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Friends trivia quiz&lt;/a&gt;, plus a whole lot of Thanksgiving episodes of other WB shows. Before the end of the week, Thanksgiving-themed episodes from &lt;b&gt;Everwood&lt;/b&gt;, &lt;b&gt;Gilmore Girls&lt;/b&gt;, and &lt;b&gt;The OC&lt;/b&gt; will all be online. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Are any of the &lt;b&gt;Friends&lt;/b&gt; Thanksgiving episodes staples of your holiday viewing? You can relive a few of the best moments if you &lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 12:30:35 -0800</pubDate>
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 <title>5 Things to Be Grateful For When You&#039;re Single</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/47_2008/8bdcc44cc7cc45a2_thankful.xlarge.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;left outline image xlarge&quot; width=&quot;320&quot; height=&quot;320&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Thanksgiving is the one holiday dedicated to being grateful for what you have, something we could all do a lot more of if you ask me. While it&#039;s sometimes easier to see the &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/1836155&quot; &gt;glass half empty than half full&lt;/a&gt;, I thought I&#039;d put together a list of five things to be thankful for if you&#039;re single this Thanksgiving, if you&#039;re in a relationship, and if you&#039;re spending the holiday with your family. To see what I think the single ladies should be thankful for, &lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 06:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
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 <title>Sunday Confessional: I Snooped in His Medicine Cabinet </title>
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&lt;p&gt;In a stern voice he asked me what I was doing while simultaneously snatching the pill bottle out of my hand. He told me to get out of his room so I ran downstairs, grabbed my purse, and left. I clearly made one of my dear friends feel incredibly uncomfortable and violated in his own home and I feel terrible. I&#039;ve been calling him nonstop to apologize, but he won&#039;t return any of my messages. Can I be forgiven for snooping in my friend&#039;s medicine cabinet? &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Submit your own Sunday Confessionals &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/contact/ask&quot; &gt;here&lt;/a&gt; and see if you are forgiven!&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sun, 23 Nov 2008 09:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
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 <title>DearSugar Needs Your Help: How Can I Get Rid of Him After Thanksgiving Dinner?</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/47_2008/cdcbc0e74c85d02f_thanks.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;right outline image xlarger&quot; width=&quot;275&quot; height=&quot;377&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;DearSugar and Regretful Regina need your help. Her friend is homeless for Thanksgiving this year and he invited himself to her house for the holiday, but she wants to be able to spend some alone time with her family. What should she do now?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Dear Sugar, &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;My friend&#039;s family currently lives in Colombia, so he sort of invited himself over to my house for Thanksgiving. We don&#039;t mind having him, but I rarely have a day off and I would like to just relax and spend time with my family without having to worry about playing hostess and keeping him entertained. Usually, we all take naps after we eat and then do something together as a family. I&#039;d like to keep that tradition alive this year, so my question is, how do I politely get rid of him after dinner? As you can tell, I&#039;m regretting the commitment I made but I don&#039;t want to uninvite him — he has nowhere else to go! Do you have any suggestions on how I can be a good friend while still being able to have alone time with my family? &lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sat, 22 Nov 2008 09:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;Even if they&#039;re living under the same roof or have plans to meet up after work, I know many couples that still touch base multiple times throughout the day. I think it&#039;s really sweet, but communication overload can be irritating for friends and co-workers when the incessant phone calls become disruptive. When I&#039;m in a relationship, I like to share all the excitement of my day with him in person, but what about you? Are you and your significant other in touch throughout the day? And if so, how often do you typically talk?&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 21:13:40 -0800</pubDate>
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 <title>Dear Poll: Passive or Pushy? </title>
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 <pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 15:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Do Tell: Have a Friend&#039;s Actions Ever Made You See Them Differently? </title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/43_2008/c6e37addb09212d1_Woman-Upset.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;left image xxlarge&quot; height=&quot;451&quot; width=&quot;300&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Just because you know someone really well, doesn’t mean that they can’t surprise you from time to time — in fact, many would say a little mystery in a relationship is a good thing! But what happens when what they surprise you with isn’t so great? If what they do is a &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/2376760&quot; &gt;disappointment&lt;/a&gt;, or worse, a betrayal, I wonder if it’s possible to see the person in the same light again. Just as we can’t forget the good memories, it can be difficult to erase the bad ones too. So ladies, please share your experiences. Do tell: Have a friend’s actions or behavior ever made you suddenly think differently of them? &lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2008 10:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Dear Poll: Are Most of Your Friends Single or in a Relationship?</title>
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 <description>&lt;!-- no strip poll --&gt;&lt;div id=&quot;epoll-view-2381679&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;script type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt;new Ajax.Request(&#039;/epoll/view/2381679&#039;,{method:&#039;get&#039;,onSuccess:function(transport){var epoll=$(&#039;epoll-view-2381679&#039;);epoll.update(transport.responseText);}});&lt;/script&gt;&lt;noscript&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/42_2008/3ebbb522eff58b81_Couples.xlarger.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;left image xlarger&quot; height=&quot;400&quot; width=&quot;297&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Life seems to have a peculiar ebb and flow when it comes to love. Sometimes it&#039;s as if everyone I know is either in a serious relationship or on their way to one, while at other times everyone  seems to be on the brink of breaking up and doing the single thing. What does it look like in your social scene right now?&lt;/p&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;1&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Lots of singles!&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;2&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Actually, it’s pretty even.&lt;/label&gt;
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 <pubDate>Mon, 20 Oct 2008 16:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Sunday Confessional: I Hurt Her, But She Won&#039;t Let It Go</title>
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 <description>&lt;!-- no strip poll --&gt;&lt;div id=&quot;epoll-view-2381280&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;script type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt;new Ajax.Request(&#039;/epoll/view/2381280&#039;,{method:&#039;get&#039;,onSuccess:function(transport){var epoll=$(&#039;epoll-view-2381280&#039;);epoll.update(transport.responseText);}});&lt;/script&gt;&lt;noscript&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;About two years ago, I entered a bleak time in my life and fell into a depression. Fortunately, I was able to make it through, and I feel much stronger today. However, at the time it was difficult to just leave the house, and I really distanced myself from many of my friends. In fact, one of my closest friends was going through her own struggles, dealing with a terrible breakup and the loss of a grandparent. More than once she called me crying and I failed to return the call, too lost in my sadness. &lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/42_2008/509b9c4a5e8a3bea_Woman-Thinking.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;right image xlarge&quot; height=&quot;315&quot; width=&quot;315&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In the midst of this, it was also her birthday and she begged me to come out with her. With much trepidation, I said yes, but when the day finally rolled around, I totally flaked. Needless to say, that was her last straw. She wrote me an email basically telling me that she was sorry I was unhappy but there was no excuse for my behavior. That email as well as some other incidents forced me to see things differently, and with the help of my therapist, I was able to start putting my life back together. Eight months ago I reconciled with my friend. I told her I was so regretful of the pain I caused her, and though it took some talking, we worked it out.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But since then she&#039;s been very passive aggressive with me. She often won&#039;t call me back. And when I ask, she says, &quot;Now you know how it feels.&quot; And she&#039;s always quick to remind me of how I hurt her, and even puts me down. She&#039;s such a good person, but she seems to have these bursts of anger towards me. I take full responsibility for what I did, and I was even willing to put up with this to some extent, but two years after the fact, it&#039;s getting old. I don&#039;t feel like this is warranted, but maybe I&#039;m wrong. Do you think I deserve this? Or is it time for me to be forgiven? &lt;/p&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;1&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Not forgive?&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;2&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Undecided — Please share. &lt;/label&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sun, 19 Oct 2008 09:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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