
Dear Sugar,
My girlfriend and I have been dating for six months and things are starting to get serious. We've moved in together and are happy that we did. She's finishing her degree in a month and is thinking of joining the armed forces so she can travel around the world — she wants me to go with her.

Dear Sugar,
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. For the past two months I have had dreams of catching him cheating on me and it's driving me to snoop on him. I look in his email, his Facebook account, and phone whenever I get a chance.

The smell of apple pie always reminds me of my grandmother, who used to make it whenever I came to visit. I'm sure you have certain feelings and memories connected to scents too. And just as they affect us during the day, researchers have found that
aromas can influence the emotions we experience when we sleep.

I love to hear about other people's dreams because they can be bizarre, especially the ones about sex or relationships since I'm convinced they're trying to tell people something juicy! Dreams can be so weird sometimes and according to
Real Simple, there's actually a biological reason for it. In everyone's head, there's a part of the brain known as the prefrontal cortex, which is responsible for logic and reasoning.

It's a rare but exciting moment when I wake up in the midst of a sexual dream. I've only had a handful, but let me tell you — they're almost as good as the real thing! We dream about sex because it's such a powerful human drive, and in our sleep we have no control over what surfaces in our subconscious minds.

Whether you tend to remember your
dreams or not, having a dream about being pregnant is pretty unforgettable. I'm sure you can relate to that panicky feeling, where you suddenly wake up and reach for your belly just to make sure. That kind of dream is so vivid that for a split second, you're not sure if it's real.

Though a particularly intense
dream can haunt you all day, unless you’re the sort to write down all your sleepy escapades in a dream diary, most of the time it’s easy to forget a dream within minutes after waking. Admittedly I’m not organized enough to keep track of mine or look up their symbolism in a dream dictionary, but sometimes I wish I paid closer attention because I do think dreams can reveal a lot about particular anxieties swirling in our minds. Then again, maybe they're just a mishmash of life all thrown together.

I think it’s safe to assume that the majority of us have had a sexy dream or two, whether we wake up before the
climax or not! But perhaps the craziest part about sex dreams is that you have no control over who makes an appearance. Though we may hope that the object of lust is our significant other or crush, that doesn’t mean it always is.

Dear Sugar,
My boyfriend keeps telling me about these dreams he's having about me. In the dreams I'm either ignoring him, breaking up with him, or having sex with another guy, and our friends in the dreams don't seem at all concerned. He tells me about how he wakes up feeling horrible and sometimes angry at me.
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Dear Sugar,
I've been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for a year now and things have been great. But a few months ago, I had a dream that he was cheating on me. Ever since I've kept getting these unfounded ideas in my head that he might be doing things that I don't approve of.