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 <title>Dear Poll: In Dating, Is Your Parents&#039; Approval Important?</title>
 <link>http://dearsugar.com/2534776</link>
 <description>&lt;!-- no strip poll --&gt;&lt;div id=&quot;epoll-view-2534776&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;script type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt;new Ajax.Request(&#039;/epoll/view/2534776&#039;,{method:&#039;get&#039;,onSuccess:function(transport){var epoll=$(&#039;epoll-view-2534776&#039;);epoll.update(transport.responseText);}});&lt;/script&gt;&lt;noscript&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/1/12981/48_2008/8d4a2977af9a7a45_parents.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;right image xlarge&quot; height=&quot;300&quot; width=&quot;300&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;The holidays are here, and I bet some of you are bringing your significant others home to meet your family for the first time. The thought of introducing a new guy to the family could easily make you feel anxious — especially if you fear he may not measure up to the picture-perfect guy your parents have in mind — so what would happen if you consider him marriage material and your parents don&#039;t approve? Ladies, what I want to know is . . .&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gettyimages.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;0&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Yes, I want my parents to love the person I&#039;m dating!&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;1&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; No, I&#039;m not concerned with whether my parents approve.&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;2&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; I&#039;m not dating.&lt;/label&gt;
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 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Dating">Dating</category>
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 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Parent Approval">Parent Approval</category>
 <pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 10:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>DearSugar</dc:creator>
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 <title>Be Prepared to Answer Those Tough Questions Tomorrow!</title>
 <link>http://dearsugar.com/slideshow/2531220</link>
 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;/slideshow/2531220?page=0&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/47_2008/64d82a8afb3983f0_giving.xlarge.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;Be Prepared to Answer Those Tough Questions Tomorrow!&quot; title=&quot;Be Prepared to Answer Those Tough Questions Tomorrow!&quot;  class=&quot;image xlarge inline left&quot; height=&quot;259&quot; width=&quot;320&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;If there&#039;s a chance you&#039;ll be put on the spot tomorrow at your Thanksgiving dinner, make sure you&#039;re prepared to answer those tough questions your bold relatives just love to ask. I hope this helps!

&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gettyimages.com&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;div id=&#039;pager&#039; style=&#039;margin:25px auto;text-align:center;margin:8px; &#039;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/slideshow/2531220?page=0&quot;&gt;Start Slideshow&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
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 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Dear Poll">Dear Poll</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Family">Family</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/holiday">holiday</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Thanksgiving">Thanksgiving</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Tough Questions">Tough Questions</category>
 <pubDate>Wed, 26 Nov 2008 09:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>DearSugar</dc:creator>
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 <title>Dear Poll: Are You Affectionate in Front of Your Family? </title>
 <link>http://dearsugar.com/2521198</link>
 <description>&lt;!-- no strip poll --&gt;&lt;div id=&quot;epoll-view-2521198&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;script type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt;new Ajax.Request(&#039;/epoll/view/2521198&#039;,{method:&#039;get&#039;,onSuccess:function(transport){var epoll=$(&#039;epoll-view-2521198&#039;);epoll.update(transport.responseText);}});&lt;/script&gt;&lt;noscript&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Most of you feel that &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/1847934&quot; &gt;a little PDA goes a long way&lt;/a&gt;, but showing some affection toward your significant other is a nice way to communicate your love, at least in my opinion! When you&#039;re around family, though, the rules tend to change. Of course it depends on the couple and the family, but in your situation, tell me, are you affectionate with your significant other in front of your family?
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gettyimages.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;0&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Yes, why not!&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;1&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; No, it&#039;s just not our thing. &lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;2&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; We might exchange a peck here and there, but we never make others feel uncomfortable. &lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;3&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Other — Please explain below.&lt;/label&gt;
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 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/affection">affection</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Dear Poll">Dear Poll</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Family">Family</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Love">Love</category>
 <pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 15:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>DearSugar</dc:creator>
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 <title>Dear Poll: Have You Ever Experimented With the Back Door? </title>
 <link>http://dearsugar.com/2512244</link>
 <description>&lt;!-- no strip poll --&gt;&lt;div id=&quot;epoll-view-2512244&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;script type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt;new Ajax.Request(&#039;/epoll/view/2512244&#039;,{method:&#039;get&#039;,onSuccess:function(transport){var epoll=$(&#039;epoll-view-2512244&#039;);epoll.update(transport.responseText);}});&lt;/script&gt;&lt;noscript&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/47_2008/cbcfad30c4ca12a2_sex.xlarger.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;right outline image xlarger&quot; width=&quot;266&quot; height=&quot;400&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Since sex can be somewhat embarrassing to talk about, I gave you all an opportunity to &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/2499495&quot; &gt;ask whatever burning questions you had &lt;/a&gt; over the weekend, anonymously of course. A lot of you were curious about the booty, and I wasn&#039;t all that surprised — anal sex isn&#039;t the easiest or most PC topic to discuss! Since it was top of mind for many, I&#039;m curious to know if you&#039;ve ever experimented with anal sex before, so tell me . . .  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gettyimages.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;0&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Yes and I really enjoyed it.&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;1&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; No way! &lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;2&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; I haven&#039;t, but I want to try it just to see what all the hype is about!&lt;/label&gt;
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 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/anal sex">anal sex</category>
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 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Sex">Sex</category>
 <pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 15:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>DearSugar</dc:creator>
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 <title>Dear Poll: Do You Admit When You&#039;re Wrong? </title>
 <link>http://dearsugar.com/2502151</link>
 <description>&lt;!-- no strip poll --&gt;&lt;div id=&quot;epoll-view-2502151&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;script type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt;new Ajax.Request(&#039;/epoll/view/2502151&#039;,{method:&#039;get&#039;,onSuccess:function(transport){var epoll=$(&#039;epoll-view-2502151&#039;);epoll.update(transport.responseText);}});&lt;/script&gt;&lt;noscript&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/46_2008/3fbcdda8ccfe6f13_wrong.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;left outline image xlarge&quot; width=&quot;313&quot; height=&quot;313&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Even if you&#039;re not typically stubborn, sometimes admitting when you&#039;re wrong can be difficult. This becomes even harder if you were particularly adamant about being right — something I tend to do myself! When I&#039;m wrong though, I&#039;m wrong, and I usually have no problem saying so, but what about you? Do you have a hard time admitting when you&#039;re incorrect?  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gettyimages.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;0&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Yes, I loathe being wrong! &lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;1&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; No. I&#039;m with you Dear, if I&#039;m wrong, then I&#039;m wrong. &lt;/label&gt;
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 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Dear Poll">Dear Poll</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/personality traits">personality traits</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/wrong">wrong</category>
 <pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 09:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>DearSugar</dc:creator>
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 <title>Dear Poll: Are You Lucky in Love?</title>
 <link>http://dearsugar.com/2500874</link>
 <description>&lt;!-- no strip poll --&gt;&lt;div id=&quot;epoll-view-2500874&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;script type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt;new Ajax.Request(&#039;/epoll/view/2500874&#039;,{method:&#039;get&#039;,onSuccess:function(transport){var epoll=$(&#039;epoll-view-2500874&#039;);epoll.update(transport.responseText);}});&lt;/script&gt;&lt;noscript&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Jennifer Aniston &lt;a href=&quot;http://popsugar.com/2499246&quot; &gt;sat down with her good friend Oprah yesterday&lt;/a&gt; to talk about her December &lt;b&gt;Vogue&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/2494156&quot; &gt;article&lt;/a&gt;, her new movie, and of course, her love life. She went on to squash some of the never-ending rumors, but she also voluntarily stated that she considers herself to be lucky in love, even though it may not look how it&#039;s supposed to!
&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/46_2008/b81a63c502265569_425.winfrey.aniston.111308.xlarger.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;outline center image xlarger&quot; width=&quot;400&quot; height=&quot;296&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;
Love is multifaceted and while it&#039;s easier for some to find than others, I do think there are certain people that just get lucky in that way. Are you one of them? &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.oprah.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;0&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Yes&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;1&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; No&lt;/label&gt;
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 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Celebrity">Celebrity</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Dear Poll">Dear Poll</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Jennifer Aniston">Jennifer Aniston</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Oprah">Oprah</category>
 <pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2008 12:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>DearSugar</dc:creator>
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 <title>Dear Poll: Have You Ever Passed an Ex Off to a Friend?</title>
 <link>http://dearsugar.com/2499024</link>
 <description>&lt;!-- no strip poll --&gt;&lt;div id=&quot;epoll-view-2499024&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;script type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt;new Ajax.Request(&#039;/epoll/view/2499024&#039;,{method:&#039;get&#039;,onSuccess:function(transport){var epoll=$(&#039;epoll-view-2499024&#039;);epoll.update(transport.responseText);}});&lt;/script&gt;&lt;noscript&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/46_2008/b8d962e1f30f5ae6_set-up.xlarger.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;left outline image xlarger&quot; width=&quot;266&quot; height=&quot;400&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The jury is still out on &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/655863&quot; &gt;whether it&#039;s OK to date a friend&#039;s ex&lt;/a&gt;, but sometimes, when you&#039;ve completely moved past the relationship, it&#039;s possible to have enough clarity to see that he just might be better for your friend than he was with you. I could imagine that would be a tough realization, but tell me, have you ever set up one of your ex-boyfriends with a girl friend of yours?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gettyimages.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 &lt;label&gt;Dear Poll: Have You Ever Passed an Ex Off to a Friend?&lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;0&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Yes, and it worked! &lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;1&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Yes, and it blew up in my face. I don&#039;t recommend doing it. &lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;2&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; No, I don&#039;t think I&#039;d ever be comfortable with that. &lt;/label&gt;
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 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Dating">Dating</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Dear Poll">Dear Poll</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Relationships">Relationships</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/set up">set up</category>
 <pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2008 09:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>DearSugar</dc:creator>
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 <title>Dear Poll: Do You Ever Break the Tension With Laughter? </title>
 <link>http://dearsugar.com/2490722</link>
 <description>&lt;!-- no strip poll --&gt;&lt;div id=&quot;epoll-view-2490722&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;script type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt;new Ajax.Request(&#039;/epoll/view/2490722&#039;,{method:&#039;get&#039;,onSuccess:function(transport){var epoll=$(&#039;epoll-view-2490722&#039;);epoll.update(transport.responseText);}});&lt;/script&gt;&lt;noscript&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/46_2008/bc0dc38a1c8f3f11_laughter.xlarge.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;left outline image xlarge&quot; width=&quot;259&quot; height=&quot;320&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Couples fight, it just comes with the territory, but knowing when to call a truce takes a certain sense of humility. I&#039;ve found that laughter helps to keep things in perspective so tell me, have you ever cracked a joke or started to giggle in order to keep the peace in your relationship?  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gettyimages.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;0&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Yes. Laughter is the best solution for fighting. &lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;1&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; No. When I&#039;m mad at someone, laughing is the last thing I want to do. &lt;/label&gt;
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 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Dear Poll">Dear Poll</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/fighting">fighting</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Laughter">Laughter</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Making Up">Making Up</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Relationships">Relationships</category>
 <pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 15:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>DearSugar</dc:creator>
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 <title>Dear Poll: Do You Believe in Love at First Sight? </title>
 <link>http://dearsugar.com/2481742</link>
 <description>&lt;!-- no strip poll --&gt;&lt;div id=&quot;epoll-view-2481742&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;script type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt;new Ajax.Request(&#039;/epoll/view/2481742&#039;,{method:&#039;get&#039;,onSuccess:function(transport){var epoll=$(&#039;epoll-view-2481742&#039;);epoll.update(transport.responseText);}});&lt;/script&gt;&lt;noscript&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you&#039;ve ever thought the notion of love at first sight was only in the movies, I bet you&#039;d be surprised to know that it does happen in real life too. I&#039;ve never experienced it before — I&#039;ve experienced &lt;i&gt;lust&lt;/i&gt; at first sight — but I&#039;ve heard people say they knew the moment they laid eyes on their significant other that he was the one! Even if you&#039;ve yet to feel it, tell me, do you believe in love at first sight? &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/46_2008/b8d2ada3b0541322_first_sight.xxlarge.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;outline image xxlarge&quot; width=&quot;500&quot; height=&quot;333&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gettyimages.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;0&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Yes, I&#039;m a hopeless romantic and totally believe in love at first sight! &lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;1&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; No, I don&#039;t think it&#039;s possible.     &lt;/label&gt;
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 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Dear Poll">Dear Poll</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Love">Love</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Love at First Sight">Love at First Sight</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/movies">movies</category>
 <pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 15:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>DearSugar</dc:creator>
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 <title>Dear Poll: Have You Ever Had a Rivalry With Another Woman?</title>
 <link>http://dearsugar.com/2490627</link>
 <description>&lt;!-- no strip poll --&gt;&lt;div id=&quot;epoll-view-2490627&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;script type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt;new Ajax.Request(&#039;/epoll/view/2490627&#039;,{method:&#039;get&#039;,onSuccess:function(transport){var epoll=$(&#039;epoll-view-2490627&#039;);epoll.update(transport.responseText);}});&lt;/script&gt;&lt;noscript&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Blake Lively &lt;a href=&quot;http://popsugar.com/2488098&quot; &gt;dispels the rivalry rumor&lt;/a&gt; between her and Leighton Meester in the December issue of &lt;b&gt;W&lt;/b&gt; magazine. She blames the media for starting it, but it got me thinking about competitive and contentious relationships between women. It seems like many of us have had a frenemy at one point in our lives, but tell me, have you ever had a full-blown rivalry with someone before?
&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/46_2008/caafd43884c9003f_rival.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;outline image xxlarge&quot; width=&quot;474&quot; height=&quot;360&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gettyimages.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;0&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; Yes, I&#039;m in one right now actually. &lt;/label&gt;
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 &lt;label class=&quot;option&quot;&gt;&lt;input type=&quot;radio&quot; name=&quot;edit[choice]&quot; value=&quot;1&quot;   class=&quot;form-radio&quot; /&gt; No, I&#039;ve never experienced that kind of relationship before. &lt;/label&gt;
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 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Dear Poll">Dear Poll</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Envy">Envy</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/frenemy">frenemy</category>
 <category domain="http://dearsugar.com/tags/Jealousy">Jealousy</category>
 <pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 10:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>DearSugar</dc:creator>
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