
You guys are full of
great advice and I recently received a question that I thought you would be able to help out with. As they say, two heads are better than one. Here's the question:
"I'm a newlywed and I am concerned for my husband's long-term health.

Dear Sugar,
My boyfriend is about to own a bar, but we have different views about what that entails. He thinks it's just a place to hang out and de-stress, and he is spending a lot of time trying to plan events. I think owning a bar is providing people with alcohol and taking their money without giving them something good in return.

Earlier this week the
BBC noted the results of a recent study suggesting that premature ejaculation, long thought to be a psychological disorder, may actually be genetic.
According to the article, the men in the study who suffered from premature ejaculation had a variation of the gene that regulates
serotonin levels — the hormone that controls, among other things, mood, appetite, and the speed at which ejaculation occurs.
And while this information will eventually help researchers create an effective treatment, for now there is no medication, leaving many couples searching for solutions to something that is often a serious detriment to a satisfying sex life.

Intimacy is a relationship necessity, but is there such a thing as too much intimacy? This is something I consistently debate with my girlfriends, which is why I was so glad to see it broached by Jake of
Married Jake, one of
Glamour's love and sex blogs.
Jake was confounded when his new wife asked him not to pee in front of her anymore.

With most couples I know, the woman usually has a big say when it comes to the man's
wardrobe. While this certainly isn’t true for everyone, it’s not surprising that many women in
long-term relationships actually do most of the shopping for the man. Though I do know many men with serious fashion sense, I know even more guys who would gladly wear the same tennis shoes and worn out T-shirt for 20 years if they could.

I don’t consider myself a competitive person, but I can get pretty feisty during a round of
Guitar Hero or a game of Scrabble. There’s nothing wrong with a little competition in a friendly game, but what about when it comes to a relationship? I’ve always kept my tiny competitive edge away from my significant other, but I’ve seen some couples duke it out over Monopoly or worse, their roles at work.

Whether you’re the kind of couple that prefers to
spend time with other couples or just
hang alone at home, eventually there comes a time when you have to socialize in a larger group setting. Some couples are born to work the crowd; they interact with everyone and then come back and connect with each other every once and a while. They never make anyone feel uncomfortable by
arguing or
being too affectionate.

I just love
kissing, don't you? It can be a sweet, familiar peck to greet a family member or an intimate and sexy, passionate kiss between lovers. Whatever it is, it always makes me feel closer to someone.

Relationships are all about
sharing, from feelings to responsibilities. But some things are not as easily shared as others, like driving. I’ve found that many individuals in relationships consider themselves a better driver than their counterpart so much so that they either demand to be the driver or won’t allow their significant other to drive their car.

It may sound cheesy and cliché, but music can be really moving and meaningful. That’s why people shell out tons for a concert ticket and couple’s love to embrace a particular song and call it their own. And the song that represents a couple is often not a love song, but something more quirky, a song that symbolizes a particular time or feeling.