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Places to Meet Eligible Men

Wed, 12/05/2007 - 9:00am by DearSugar
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If you're not in a relationship, and you're looking to meet someone, I'm sure you've asked yourself "where are all the good guys?" It can feel really frustrating when you're on the dating scene and meeting a bunch of duds. Here's a list of places good men may be lurking:

  • At a bar - This may not be the most romantic way to meet a guy, but it's a great place to meet single men, who are also looking to meet single women. Drinking alcohol makes it easier for shy guys to approach you, and you can make dinner plans for another day if a guy sparks your interest.
  • At the gym - You can get a good look at a guy while he's working out (through the mirror without him knowing), and you'll know in advance that he cares about his health, which is a must.
  • At the grocery store - Hey you never know where cute guys will be! Keep your eyes open and you might find someone who has a knack for picking out avocados.

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  • At church or temple - If religion is important to you, this is a great place to find a guy you know has the same morals and family values as you.
  • Coffee shops or cafes - If you're a quiet person, chances are quiet guys will be hanging out at coffee shops too, reading, writing or drinking a cup of Joe. You could make eye contact and spark up some great conversation with an intellectual guy.
  • Dinner parties - Meeting people through friends is a great, safe and easy way to meet eligible bachelors. There will be other people around so you won't feel nervous or on the spot, and it's quiet enough so you can really talk and get to know each other.
  • At work - You can get a good sense of what a guy is like if you work with him and see him everyday. You can have lunch together and have at least one thing in common to chat about.

These are just a few ideas. If you have any others, please share them below.

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  • Lovely_1's picture
    Lovely_1
    1

    Haha my parents met at a bar! My mom asked my dad if she could play pacman with him!
    And 22 years later they are still in love Smiling

    50 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • SummerBaby's picture
    SummerBaby
    2

    awe a bar... how romantic! haha.. but actaully i know alot of people who have met at a bar!.. you just cant hook up that night.. well i wouldn't i like to keep a little mistery!.. and then when you go on a date.... you know you like the guy for him!.. Smiling not cuz of how wonderful the bang waS

    50 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • ElizabethRae's picture
    ElizabethRae
    3

    I heard someone say that an Ace/Lowe's/Home Depot type store is a good place. Easy to spot the rings of the married ones, too. You could bond over flooring selections and crown molding!

    50 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • chakra_healer's picture
    chakra_healer
    4

    Also, taking a class.
    There are sooo many single guys in my class - all nice, educated, sexy, and single.

    50 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • Greentea1203's picture
    Greentea1203
    5

    I think work is a good place, just as long as if you break up it's not a bad thing. I dated a guy at my office for 2 years and then we broke up. Work wasn't fun for awhile, but he soon got fired and I still work here 3 1/2 years later. Ha!

    I have a crush on a guy at work right now--it makes work a lot more fun and I put more effort into getting ready in the morning. Smiling!

    I always check guys out at the grocery, too...

    50 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • kia's picture
    kia
    6

    volunteer work

    whether you volunteer with an organization on a regular schedule or for special events you generally find like-minded folks and aren't drunk when you meet

    you also have something in common

    50 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • em1282's picture
    em1282
    8

    Haha, it might be a bit awkward, but meeting someone on a train/bus is kind of a good way to go. You can gauge what they do by how they're dressed and it's easy to spot a ring...

    50 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • ThePerfectScore's picture
    ThePerfectScore
    9

    Omg since my bf is moving away pretty soon I've been saying I need to find a replacement bf.... since I met my guy online I promised myself I won't do that, but I have to "meet guys the old fashion way... in a bar or at church...." And last night I worked out at the gym with my friend and that location seemed like prime territory too.

    50 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • nevaeh1978's picture
    nevaeh1978
    10

    Online

    It seems to be more and more of a trend, online dating and such, at least, you know straight away they're initially at least attracted to your profile Laughing out loud to ask you out on an off-line date.

    50 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • labridgette's picture
    labridgette
    11

    i am going to say that work is a bad idea. unless it's only a temp job. i've had some bad experiences where it becomes super awkward. i always vow never to do it again, but it's hard not to get close to people when you see them every day.

    50 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • Papaya's picture
    Papaya
    12

    I definitely agree with online. Online is a less embarrassing way to meet people. No stuttering or blushing through text Sticking out tongue

    50 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • hotstuff's picture
    hotstuff
    13

    A bar is not a great place but many people DO meet there. People always say the grocery store but hello has anyone EVER met there? I've never ever even seen anybody remotely cute at the grocery store! Work is also a horrble place thats just asking for trouble unless you work in completely different departments and floors. I think school, the mall, and the library are semi good possible places.

    50 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • angelbaby2's picture
    angelbaby2
    14

    i never met anyone in those places! LOL!! I always looked too! Perhaps I looked too hard. Then I looked online! SUCCESS! We married! go figure. whatever works

    50 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • plasticapple's picture
    plasticapple
    15

    My man and I met at a bar. He approached me and we hung out together until last call. I gave him my number and he called me before my friends and I even got home. It was a few weeks before we went on a date, but we talked every day until then. We've been together for over a year and plan to spend the rest of our lives together. Laughing out loud

    50 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • lickety split's picture
    lickety split
    16

    if you want to meet men; join a dating service. they do the work for you. they locate the guy (he's hetro!), do a back ground check (make sure he's single), compare interests. they are experts at setting people up. don't reinvent the wheel. i'm married now, but in retrospect a dating service would have made sense. my dh and i met through our married friends. she sort of did a mini dating service for me w/ interests, background, etc. and of course knew their dating histories.

    50 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • Asia84's picture
    Asia84
    17

    There are some H.O.T firemen who shop at the ALbertson's i shop at. but all they do is stare at me. . . .

    should i throw frozen burritos to get them to approach me???

    you can run into a burning building, but you can't do more than smile and grin at me???

    50 weeks 22 hours ago Report Comment
  • cloubnme's picture
    cloubnme
    18

    Which Albertson's is this?!? I never see any sexy firemen unless they're zooming down the street with sirens blazing.

    50 weeks 16 hours ago Report Comment
  • Brooklynbee's picture
    Brooklynbee
    19

    My parents met in a bar... and I met my husband in a bar! It's a family tradition. And we're not even big drinkers, go figure.

    50 weeks 15 hours ago Report Comment
  • VicVicVictooriaa's picture
    VicVicVictooriaa
    20

    my parents met at penn station (in nyc) and my mom said, and i quote, "that is the man im going to marry" when she saw my dad...25 years later...they are still together

    so definitely transportation works

    50 weeks 12 hours ago Report Comment

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