yes yes i am

but not like too many candles all over the place. just few here and there.

I can dig it. Candlelight is very flattering!

Never actually tried it, but I'd like to.

I like sex by any light.

and it only counts as extra romantic if HE sets it up...

i love it! it sets such a romantic mood and the shadows... hahaha!

if only it could actually happen. guys have even heard of the word romance these days.

I like the light but no hot wax!

it's a great compromise if you like it in the dark and your guy likes it with full lights on XD

I light a candle once in awhile, just keep it on a nightstand where there is no chance of it getting knocked over. Also, I always have candles that are contained in votives. As far as mood lighting, I like to mix it up. Some nights do it in pitch black but other times do it with sun pouring in the windows. That way each of your senses gets a turn.

I've never done it by candlelight actually... but I really want to try it. =P

Maybe it's because I'm super comfortable with my man and he really does make me feel completely not self conscious, but any kind of light is fine. Candlelight is great... Moonlight's even better. Not to mention, candle light is probably one of the most flattering sources of illumination (felt like I said light one too many times in this post).

Yes! As long as the candles are away from the bed, and there's not too many of them...

I love it...my hubby likes the lights on (being the typical visual man) but I think it's more romantic in the dark, so it's a great compromise!

Haha, I too, love sex by any light!

No, that's just too cliche.

massive amounts of lit candles make me extremely nervous and stressed...
sort of ruins the mood

I don't mind it, but I don't go setting up candles before being intimate either.

Haha,I have a funny story:

It was Valentines a few years ago and my hubby and I set up candles. We were getting at it and we smelled something burning and we looked up and our extremely fluffy cat singed the end of her tail! It was just too hilarious! She was fine, by the way and my husband and I had a good laugh. If we ever do the candle thing again, no animals will be allowed in the room! lol

it's terribly sexy. my guy and i usually have sex with the lights on. it's nice to have softer lighting. when we set up candles (whether it is him or i) we always go overboard. at first i worry that one of the kitties will catch fire (imagine having a little fireball running around?) or us burning the house down...but, i eventually start focusing on my partner and our amazing relationship.

I'm also a fan of total darkness bein not completely proud of my current bod. It's a new years resolution to lighten up. I say candlelight is definitely the most flattering.

Sex by candlelight...oooohh yeah...the soft light flickering all over our bodies as we sway in our private ocean of love, hell yes!

I dunno about that... taking the time to set the mood and light candles and all that jazz just seems like you're preparing too much for the actual moment... I like spontaneity... I don't want to build it up by creating a super dramatic scene lol