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Are You Into Quickies?

Thu, 10/11/2007 - 8:00am by DearSugar
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I love the idea of a quick romp between the sheets. An impromptu noon-er with your man sounds pretty spontaneous, exciting, sexy, and hot, doesn't it?

The only thing is that a guy can usually orgasm in three minutes or less, especially when he's super-excited, but it can take a girl much longer to climax. There is no foreplay when it comes to quickies, just pure fast, passionate lustful sex. So there may not be a huge explosive bang at the end for the girl, but who cares? They're still fun!

What do you think about quickies? Are you into them, or are you more into slow lovemaking sessions instead? Do you have any memorable quickie experiences you want to share? I'm sure I speak for everyone when I say that we'd love to live vicariously through you!

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  • yogini's picture
    yogini
    1

    Got to have hot passion with the person to get off on a quickie.

    47 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • SummerBaby's picture
    SummerBaby
    2

    i think it all depends.. but i do like them.. sometimes when we go for lunch Smiling thats the best!

    47 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • em1282's picture
    em1282
    3

    Hee...one of the best ones we had was last summer at a wedding. We checked into a hotel after spending most of the day with his friends, so we finally had a moment alone, and bam. Smiling Then we had to go back out for bar night. Heh Smiling

    47 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • starbright14's picture
    starbright14
    4

    i love a good lunchtime quickie. funny, because im picking up my date from work in 5 minutes and bringing him home...

    47 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • bbkf's picture
    bbkf
    5

    The best is the bathroom at a party, before anyone notices you're gone.

    47 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • Lovely_1's picture
    Lovely_1
    10

    Mmmm I love 'em too!
    We do it all the time when we're too lazy and I get just as horny off them Eye-wink

    47 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • fashionhore's picture
    fashionhore
    11

    For a quickie to work properly, in my experience anyway, you have to have a lot of passion and really aroused on by the other person. Just the idea of them get me hot; they are so taboo and spontanious!

    I have had a few with my current boyfriend only because he can do those things to me in an instant. That and he knows how to simply because he is good at that type of thing.

    With other guys I have tried it with I faked it because they did not care about my end result. That and they did not know how to work a woman to begin with!

    47 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • kiddylnd's picture
    kiddylnd
    14

    I get an hour for lunch and live 5 minutes from home. This has ALWAYS been something we do. It's a turn on to think about it going to happen, and it's fun to think that it did happen at lunch and wonder if anyone knows you did. It's just fun. Period. Just not ALL the time.

    Once, when my BF and I worked together, one of the guys passing him looked at him funny...then asked what he ate for lunch with a wink. He had of curse, eaten ME for lunch. He hadn't had a chance to clean up yet because we ran short on time. He was actually on his way from the car to the washroom when this happened. This is one of the funniest things to us to this day. Eye-wink

    47 weeks 23 hours ago Report Comment
  • MamaD's picture
    MamaD
    16

    With a second marriage coming with three boys from day one....quickies were all we had for a time. And for as often as we like to do it, quickies work out nicely!!!!! I don't need to be wined and dined. Foreplay can just be the look in his eyes for me!!! I tend to think I look at sex more like a man does. And I have never ever called the act "love making!" That makes me laugh hysterically!

    47 weeks 23 hours ago Report Comment
  • erthed's picture
    erthed
    18

    Quickies work as long as there is passion. I'd have a hard time winging that during the day now that I'm an old-married-mother of three. However, if I have a drink with lunch, that's another story!

    47 weeks 22 hours ago Report Comment
  • DesignRchic's picture
    DesignRchic
    19

    Kiddylnd! That's awesome.
    When we go on road trips we pull off on some random road where there's noting around and have a quickie. One time we almost got caught at a rest stop!! Oh boy am I red-faced now! Embarassed

    47 weeks 22 hours ago Report Comment
  • Emiily's picture
    Emiily
    21

    I like quickies. A few weeks ago as soon as my boyfriend and I stepped into his apartment I stripped him of his clothes, brought him to the bedroom, sat on him, kissed him passionately, and we got it on like that. The other night we were cuddling and things started to heat up and we had a quickie just to get off real quick then go to sleep. We have a lot of sex, we have slow passionate long hours of sex too but quickies are fun. I have an orgasm very quick! Thankfully, because I am a woman. I'm lucky it doesn't take me an hour. I can orgasm again and again though, hours later. Multiple orgasms, Score!

    47 weeks 21 hours ago Report Comment
  • lily3484's picture
    lily3484
    22

    quickies are great. i love the sponteinety of it..i think some men get self concious in that they feel like they are not "pleasing" us with a quickie, but honestly, i think they are great...just because im not reaching an orgasim doesnt mean that it doesnt feel good.

    47 weeks 21 hours ago Report Comment
  • chicaparati17's picture
    chicaparati17
    23

    Love'em...wish I could have one right now...but thats not possible husband is in IRAQ Sad

    47 weeks 19 hours ago Report Comment
  • fadeastride's picture
    fadeastride
    28

    Actually, my boyfriend takes about as long as I do to orgasm. We can't have quickies, haha!

    47 weeks 7 hours ago Report Comment
  • allien86's picture
    allien86
    29

    I agree with lily3848 I love quickies, but my bf feels that he cant please me that way and so doesnt like to do it unless we have ample time.

    47 weeks 7 hours ago Report Comment
  • veronicaraye's picture
    veronicaraye
    30

    I love them, I think all the quickness & rushed aspect makes it better. but yes, never climax.

    47 weeks 2 hours ago Report Comment
  • Pumpkin Queen's picture
    Pumpkin Queen
    31

    Ive only seen a couple of nos!

    And no... im sorry but if i want sex i want at least 20 minutes of intense mind blowing sex. ILL MAKE TIME Sticking out tongue

    47 weeks 27 min ago Report Comment
  • mrspiven's picture
    mrspiven
    33

    i love quickies: they're so hot. its a great way to keep things interesting.

    46 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • poizenisxkandee's picture
    poizenisxkandee
    35

    ahh quickies so fun!

    lol

    just like; you know...changing a lightbulb or watching tv and all of a sudden you get that feeling; exchange that look; and boom; you know.

    its a good time for both parties.

    i mean of course we love the long sweet sensuous sex, or the really hot and dirty "f*ck me now" sex...but the spontaneity and fun of a quickie; especially when we know theres someone in the next room; is all that much more fun.

    you know, like...the thrill of maybe getting caught.
    teehee

    46 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • JessBear's picture
    JessBear
    36

    Haha...I remember the first time I ever had a quickie- it was the first time I came close to feeling dissapointed from sex. We parked the car on a secluded street, trying to find time to do it between classes and work, and it was awkward, quick, and slightly painful. And then, just as I'm getting into it, bam! It's over. My exact words were "I don't think I like quickies very much."

    I still don't. They always strike me as sort of sexist- I know I'm not going to get off, I know I'm going to be left in pain because there's no time for lube, natural or otherwise, and when it's over, I still feel all hot and bothered, as well as hot and sweaty and with wrinkled clothes. Meanwhile, he leaves feeling like THE MAN.

    46 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • fasdy's picture
    fasdy
    37

    Oh, I definitely love quickies. If we're not going to have time for a full out love session, quickies are the way to go. And, for quickies, I'm able to orgasm in no time with a little manual stimulation.

    Favorite quickie? Oh man. We were hiking along a river in a wilderness regional park. We sat down to snack on a little bit of food and ended up making love on a huge, smooth rock in the middle of the river. It was amazing!

    46 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • reese05's picture
    reese05
    38

    There was a point in our relationship when we really loved quickies but now, every quickie turns into a whole session...we just can't help it I guess...

    46 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment

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