Weigh in and tell us if you forgive or not forgive this True Confession.
"I wish one day you would tell me you have some secret real loving feelings for me instead of just the sex talk all the time. I have never let anyone use me like I let you. I know I am worth more than just sex yet I always crawl back to you each and every time. You are my weakness. Should I forgive myself for letting someone blatantly take advantage of me?"
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You are human, just like the rest of us. And at some point in our lives we all keep running back to the person that is the worst for us. It's a bad habit that needs to be broken, yes, but its up to you when you want to break that habit. Songs you need to listen to (in this order, with purpose): 1. "Walk Away" - Christina Aguilera 2. "Bad Habit" - Destiny's Child 3. "Suffer For Love" - Mutya Buena (of Sugarbabes) 4. "Melt My Heart to Stone" - Adele 5. "Me" - Tamia (gives self love) 6. "Right Through You" - Alanis Morisette (should be last for a reason)
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Forgive yourself girlie!
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Forgive...most of us have done this. Only you will know the right time to kick him to the curb and find someone that adores you!
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Firgive but stop the behavior. Someone who is using you will never love you not the way you want to be loved. For your own mental emotional and physical health don't let this happen again. You really are worth more.
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If you were my friend I'd forgive you but feel very angry at your lack of respect for yourself. I wouldn't forgive myself for behaving this way and neither should you!
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Forgive. We're human and I agree everyone has that a person like that. Mine is my ex-boyfriend. We continue to hook up, and I act like it's just for fun (we're both in relationships) but I think deep down I wish there was more again, even though he was bad for me....
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Not-Forgive. It's forgiveable the first couple of times but when you realize he's totally taking advantage of you and you STILL crawl back, not forgive. Get some respect for yourself and then come talk.
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R.E.S.P.E.C.T. Find out what it means to me. Giiirrrl you so outta wack you aint got no respet fo yousself? Sorry, couldn't help it.
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Forgive yourself, but also I think it's important to Respect yourself. Your body is a temple and you shouldn't be used.
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Get some self-esteem before you can forgive yourself.
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Forgive. Just know that your better than that! If you waiting for him to come around and love you, he won't. Don't let yourself get hurt anymore.
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Forgive...we all makes mistakes and sometimes there is jsut that one guy who is your weakness...but stop that behabiovour now...it is just destroying whatever self-respect and self-esteem you have left.
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You should only forgive if you are going to stop...otherwise you are forgiving the bad habit and letting it be used as an excuse for next time, which in that case, not forgive!
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Sounds like someone needs a giant dose of self-esteem.
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I think that we have all been there at one point in time, but you have to learn to respect yourself more and then others will as well. If people can tell that you're a doormat, they will wipe their dirty shoes on you.
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forgive yourself and move on. i don't want to make you feel worse, but you probably serve as an extra ego boost every time you see him. and every time you see him, he will think it's ok to keep on going in the direction that it's going. ignore his calls, and do not see him. in this case, distance will definitely make the heart grow fonder, but not for him, for yourself.
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Are these things supposed to be like made up and hypothetical? Cause I think anyone knows the answer to this question... Doesn't seem like there's a need to make a posting out of it...