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Where Do You Stand: Being Naked in a New Relationship

Wed, 07/30/2008 - 8:00am by DearSugar
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As annoying as dating can be, you can't deny that it's also equally exciting. Nothing beats the anticipation of having your first kiss, and of course, moving on to other fun pleasures in the bedroom. Sharing your body with someone else is a very special experience, so I'm wondering, how do you feel about getting naked when you're in a new relationship?

Are you shy at first, but then quickly warm up? Or are you the kind of person who is completely comfortable in her skin and can bare it all with no qualms? Maybe you're a little hesitant and you wait for the other person to get naked first, or does being naked make you utterly uncomfortable no matter who you're with? Share your feelings in the comment section below.

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  • Lovely_1's picture
    Lovely_1
    2

    Haha my boyfriend calls me his naked lady.
    I think when we started living together, is when I when I started to be naked 24/7. He said it was such a nice suprise!

    As soon as I get home, all clothes come off. I love cooking, clenaing, watchign TV and sitting on the computer nude hahaha! I know it sounds weird and maybe even gross, but it really helps my self-confidence and our relationship.

    Like, how can he get mad at me when I am naked!?

    16 weeks 20 hours ago Report Comment
  • CYL's picture
    CYL
    3

    I don't care...my bf loves my body...and so do I Smiling

    16 weeks 20 hours ago Report Comment
  • skigurl's picture
    skigurl
    4

    yah but the question is - in a new relationship

    i'm sure your boyfriend likes your body, hence part of the reason why he is in a relationship with you is because he's attracted to you!

    in terms of someone new, i would say it's a bit nervewracking, but frankly, clothes don't hide everything and you're fooling yourself if you think that a loose tshirt is making him think you have a six pack under there...he knows what to expect

    16 weeks 20 hours ago Report Comment
  • popgoestheworld's picture
    popgoestheworld
    5

    Being naked 24/7 seems... unsanitary. Ew.

    Generally when I get naked with a guy for the first time it's in bed so it's not really nervewracking for me. It would just be plain weird for me to strip down in front of a guy while he was staring at me.

    16 weeks 20 hours ago Report Comment
  • skigurl's picture
    skigurl
    6

    haha yah pop, i agree, and normally it's dark, or at least it's not natural sunlight!

    16 weeks 19 hours ago Report Comment
  • CYL's picture
    CYL
    7

    Hhaha ok I am fine walking around sans clothes in a new relationship too...I am a bit of a free spirit and I work out at the gym HARD for my body...so I am going to show it Eye-wink Sides strangers see most of it in a bikini on the beach anyways...so ...meh..

    16 weeks 19 hours ago Report Comment
  • bbkf's picture
    bbkf
    8

    Getting naked the first time in front of a boyfriend was exciting. I like showing off what I've got!

    16 weeks 19 hours ago Report Comment
  • AmyLyn's picture
    AmyLyn
    9

    It's a little scary at first, but like some said...you're usually in bed and ahem...a little too busy to care. As the relationship grows i become more comfortable with being naked to the point of usually sleeping naked, sex with the lights on etc. I also think it helps at first to for him to show how into your body he is, a major confidence booster for sure!

    16 weeks 18 hours ago Report Comment
  • FabSugar's picture
    FabSugar
    10

    I say be as naked as possible in the beginning; you never know when the fun is going to end and baring all is such a turn on, for both parties. Eye-wink xo

    16 weeks 17 hours ago Report Comment
  • rice a roni's picture
    rice a roni
    11

    I HATE being naked... and I'm married!! It's not because I'm not proud of my body, I work hard and I think it looks great, I'm just pretty darn shy when it comes to being naked. That is probably one of the biggest fights I get into with my hubby, becuase he wants me to be naked alot more often

    16 weeks 15 hours ago Report Comment
  • snowysakurasky's picture
    snowysakurasky
    12

    That depends how good my body is looking at that moment. so i guess its all about vanity (not morality) for me. But I am not too into hanging out naked.

    16 weeks 15 hours ago Report Comment
  • krrn's picture
    krrn
    13

    years ago i was much more nervous about being seen naked. since i've entered my 20s, for some reason i have really grown to love my body more. obviously, it's still scary letting someone see you naked for the first time but in a good way.

    16 weeks 12 hours ago Report Comment
  • imLissy's picture
    imLissy
    14

    When I was little, like 3, I used to run around the house naked. My parents said I would make some guy very happy some day. They were right! lol

    I'm quite comfy being naked in front of my bf and I often am. He saw me without my clothes on our third date I think it was... But he's the only guy who's gotten to see me naked and will be the only one, unless I switch to a male doctor or something.

    16 weeks 11 hours ago Report Comment
  • alexask's picture
    alexask
    15

    even though i am naturally very shy, for some reason being naked in front of people doesn't bother me. it actually relieves me, because it's just like, here i am, no more paranoid hiding or awkwardness.

    16 weeks 10 hours ago Report Comment
  • BedBugs's picture
    BedBugs
    16

    I go from shy to more comfortable when I'm naked in front a new guy. I think it definitely takes some getting used to in the very beginning, for me anyway, but I'll soon become much more comfortable.

    16 weeks 8 hours ago Report Comment
  • chocolatine's picture
    chocolatine
    17

    I'm quite comfortable being naked in a new relationship, because I figure if the guy has asked me out and gone on several dates with me, he likes the way I look in clothes and will also like the way I look out of them (never had a guy complain, either). Having said that, I don't like being naked in non-sexual situations, I like to be in my bra and panties at least. Not because I'm shy, just for "protection & support" Eye-wink.

    16 weeks 3 hours ago Report Comment
  • lovelikewinter's picture
    lovelikewinter
    18

    Ive been dating my bf for almost a year and only last month did I decide to be fully naked in front of him. Im very self conscious about my breasts.

    15 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • AutumnM's picture
    AutumnM
    19

    i'm like other people. i just take off my clothes as soon as i get home. but then i usually put a female condom on and wait for my boyfriend to get home so we could play.

    8 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment

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