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Do Tell: How Often Do You Have Sexual Dreams?

Thu, 08/28/2008 - 8:00am by DearSugar
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It's a rare but exciting moment when I wake up in the midst of a sexual dream. I've only had a handful, but let me tell you — they're almost as good as the real thing! We dream about sex because it's such a powerful human drive, and in our sleep we have no control over what surfaces in our subconscious minds. So you may have a sexual dream about your present lover, a past lover, someone you've had your eye on, or even a celebrity (did someone say Brad Pitt?). You may have surprising dreams about people you've never really thought of (like a co-worker), or dreams where your sexual identity has switched (maybe you're involved in a lesbian love fest when you're actually heterosexual). Or maybe, you'll be lucky enough to have a sexual dream where you actually climax. So tell me ladies, how often do you have tantalizing sexual dreams? Care to share any of the details?

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  • pamelamarie88's picture
    pamelamarie88
    1

    All the time! I'd say 3-4 times a week, maybe because my husband and I like to keep pretty busy, once a day usually. The only other man I have sex dreams of, apart from my husband, is Richard Hammond. He's a tele presenter on BBC's Top Gear. Very much not my type, but he's so incredibly adorable it's amazing. I can't help thinking about how he'd be in bed! Girls, watch an episode of Top Gear! Yes, it's a car show, but you'll immediately fall in love with Richard!

    12 weeks 1 min ago Report Comment
  • Muirnea's picture
    Muirnea
    2

    Hmmm, I rarely remember dreams at all (or wake up in the middle of them) so sex dreams are even rarer. I was on the phone with my bf (now ex) one night and we both fell asleep, but he told me in the morning that I had a sex dream b/c I was making sexual noises, LOL LOL. I didn't really remember it...yeeeaaa. haha. Smiling

    11 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • popgoestheworld's picture
    popgoestheworld
    3

    I don't have sex dreams that frequently. When I do, they almost always include random people I'm not attracted to. It used to bug me when this happened because I used to think it *meant* something but I got over it. And I don't think I've ever been having sex in my dreams. I think it's more just sexual tension or kissing or something.

    11 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • Lovely_1's picture
    Lovely_1
    4

    I don't have them a lot either, Dear, but I love when I do!!!
    They are super good and you feel soooo good when you wake up!

    I still remember this one I had LOOONG ago about hot Leonardo DiCaprio!

    11 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • Jeny's picture
    Jeny
    5

    oh holy jeez I LOVE those.. I've even woken up feeling like I just had a big ole 'O'.. super awesome lol..

    11 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • girlnone's picture
    girlnone
    6

    I have very strange dreams, as a rule, and a good number of them involve sex. Sometimes I marvel at my subconscious, but I've also gotten some good ideas for stories out of them.

    11 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • wadewifey3's picture
    wadewifey3
    7

    I have a lot of sex dreams, i'd say at least 3 to 4 times a week. Different characters, situations, it changes.

    11 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • tatsauce's picture
    tatsauce
    8

    At least twice a week. Sometimes they're really intense and fun! Like it's actually happening. Sometimes there with these really random people or with co-workers. The ones I like the best feature my boyfriend, my real-life sex partner.

    11 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • SweetnLow's picture
    SweetnLow
    9

    Occasionally under normal circumstances (like once or twice a month.) But if my husband is deployed, about 3-4 times a week. And Now that I'm pregnant and my husband is deployed.. every single evening.

    I had one on Tuesday staring Mr. Pitt. In the shower. It was good (but not the best.) I had one a few years ago featuring someone whom at the time I didn't have the "hots" for- Matthew Lillard. THAT dream was so good- I changed the way I thought about him and still blush when I think about it.

    11 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • MissJules5x's picture
    MissJules5x
    10

    i get those occasionally but the best part is that when i wake up and i'm all excited i can just attack my boyfriend and get the real thing cuz he always wakes up that way Eye-wink hehe

    11 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • Seka21's picture
    Seka21
    11

    3/4 times a week
    But it hink about sex all day long.. no idea why im not a nympho.. i just randomly think about it alot!

    11 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • RustyAngel73's picture
    RustyAngel73
    13

    i LOVE these, i don't have them often enough...only had about 4 or so ever. but one time i dreamed i had a penis and i was so terrified when i woke up, it felt so real that i had to check! lol

    11 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • g1amourpuss's picture
    g1amourpuss
    15

    I had a dream about two girls last night. It was lovely.

    I think I have sexual dreams once or twice a week.. usually if I'm sexually frustrated or in need of blissful relief.

    11 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • pink_elephant's picture
    pink_elephant
    16

    for me, this happen almost twice a week! I normally dream about people I don't really notice during the day- but they just tend to appear in my dreams!! I love those dreams though, they seem so real sometimes!!

    11 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • Popeye's picture
    Popeye
    17

    i had a sex dream once when my gf (now ex) was making sexual noises in her sleep. it's a subconscious thing ya know?!

    11 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • californiagirlx7's picture
    californiagirlx7
    18

    Very rarely. The first semi-sexual dream I had was when I was in my early teens and I dreamed about making out with Heath Ledger (I had just watched A Knight's Tale). He was one of my first celebrity crushes

    11 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • cwpn's picture
    cwpn
    20

    i have had a dream were i know my boyfriend is about to be coming home and a good male friend of mine asks me to sleep with him. i agree knowing quite well that this guy is a slag. after weve done the business my boyfriend comes in and im wrecked with guilt.

    11 weeks 3 days ago Report Comment
  • twilight07's picture
    twilight07
    21

    i dont have sexual dreams that often. once in a great while.
    But i orgasm in my sleep more than i have sexual dreams...

    5 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment

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