forgive. he broke up with you & has already moved on, what's the point of sitting around pining for him?

Of course ... there's nothing to forgive because you didn't do anything wrong. I wish I could move on as quickly

What exactly do you need to be forgiven for not only that it was just sex to me moving on is actually being in a relationship with someone not just having sweaty, pissed-off at your ex sex.

friggin right; he broke up with you and already updated his DATING PROFILE! you are allowed to have revenge sex

I wouldn't consider a hookup after a breakup "revenge sex," but that's just me.

There's nothing to forgive! If you feel badly about it, take a little break from life and dating, but then get right back in there. It really is the best therapy!

i agree with everyone above. He broke up with you! That's nothing to be ashamed about sleeping with someone else right afterwards.

The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.

Fallen you beat me to it! LOL
I don't think it's anything to feel bad about.

Its called rebounding. Its the best way to get over a hangup. You somewhat feel better about yourself because someone is interested in you physically.

Good for you!

Who exactly would have to forgive you here? Certainly not him. Yourself? You don't need to give yourself permission to find pleasure!

forgive. it would only be bad if your rebound guy was expecting something to come of it and you were only using him. but seeing as he is a friend with benefits.. there is no problem here!

Forgive. Though you needn't ask in this instance. Good for you and hope it was better than with your selfish EX-fiancee.

I say forgive way to play it like a dude. they don't wait or sit around weeping over us why should we do it for them? besides this guy was going to marry you and then a week after he breaks up with you he's trolling for new babes. I think you should have filmed the sexcapade and sent it to him.

Hey, there is absolutely nothing wrong with choosing to enjoy yourself rather than wallowing in misery over the breakup!

Nothing to forgive! Have fun! If you're not in mourning, no reason to force it upon yourself because you feel it's expected or something!!

Sorry he wasted your love and time. Now . . .let's pack up, go to Miami, and have a sh*tload of revenge sex with guys who are more worthy of your time!

Did you update your dating profile? If you are on facebook, make sure you update your status to "just did it." =)

You ladies crack me up. Excellent advise!

Forgive! You were a free and single woman! Haven't you heard of that saying? The best way to get over someone is to get under someone. Enjoy.

Who's to say that you've actually moved on though?

You're my hero.

No question...forgive!

Forgive! Of course!

lols rebound

I forgive ya LOL, better than pining for him, especially since he's already moved on.

You aren't together so it's definitely okay. You shouldn't be sitting around hoping he'll change his mind. It worked, didn't it? Good for you.

absolutely! he was clearly not committed enough to communicate his needs or feelings, so you're free to do what you want and need to do!