I did a poll almost like this in my group R.W.O (Real Women Online)...Funny!

Anywho, I just drift off to a pleasant fantasy land(when no one is around of course)LOL

hmm..I like to go buy new shoes, shoes never fail to make me feel better. As for healthy ways, Sometimes I just wait until I get home from work, because it never fails that my BF will tell me that I look hot or give some sort of compliment when I get home. (he loves it when Im all dressed up in my "business attire") I also like to write (poems, short stories or just writing my thoughts down on paper helps too). I also like to read motivating poetry....heres one poem that I like to read when Im having a one of those days..i posted it on another thread as well...it usually makes me feel better.

sometimes I feel like I'm sittin' in the back row of Barbie and Ken 101
a class we are all in, but never seem to learn from
Some general ed requirement for
Students of American culture
A GE that convinces even the brightest
of young women that sex is survival of the thinnest
and I'm sick of this education that doesn't serve our best interests
my teacher has no face
she is every Revelon model women have ever chased
her lectures come through magazines in beauty shops & add campaigns,
sh*t
just turn on your tv
this just in, a skewed perspective for todays youth y'al ladies aint thin enough, fellas aint trim
enough, wanna be sexy?
Y'al don't go to the gym enough, cut to commercial, common just come tune
in to our maintenance team, convince you're ugly then tell you how to fix it with maybeline
Perpetually started by these dolls marketed in the late 50's named
Barbie and Ken
hence the
class I'm in
Are you following?
sh*t didn't end
They keep moldin' Barbie to fit new trends
next maybe they'll have club hoppin' Barbie
With thongs as accessories
video hoe Barbie
abusive boyfriend sold separately
underaged Barbie
Cobey Bryant included
or 9/11 victim Barbie
and Ken is proud to get recruited
problem is all these teachings are womans decay
and I'm startin' to worry cuz my girl is up front and she's getting an A
this is where I start getting pissed off ok
when the f**k did it become all about
tuckin' in the gutt I gotta get the bigger breast
sh*t I wanna fit a little better in a dress
so let me get a little skinny gotta fit into an itty bitty
size slimmer so I livin up the chest
please
teacher teacher I wanna give my oral presentation
cuz I have a problem with the class, and matter of fact, I have, a fat ass grudge with the
whole administration
you're the reason my girl won't eat in front of me in restaurants

the reason that she thinks she's overweight in over ten spots
less gut less pudge less lunch less real, more looks more love more Barbie
appeal?
f**k Barbie and Ken
My future daughter will never play with them
you're the reason bleedin' 15 year old girls arms are slit
You made 12 year olds think skinny was a compliment
And now it's too late
I can't write my way through this bathroom door
So I raise my hand in class cuz I can't stand it any more
Teacher teacher your lectures all backwards
You got mothers and daughters forgetting what matters
Cuz above tits, ass, lips, legs, and ugs
The most attractive women are the ones who don't give a f**k
So screw your teachings your lessons and plans
You skewed sick distant relative of the man
Your plan for brainwashin' my baby I reject
I'm walkin' out of this class, and I will proudly take, my F

I usually listen to Corinne Bailey Rae. Her track 'Put Your Records On' usually does the job.

Push-up bra and low-cut shirt. Tada!

I usally buy something or like allourregrets said my BF always makes me feel better. I don't even have to say anything, every night I come home he makes a big fuss cause it's the first he's seen me dressed that day since he leaves before I get out of bed in the morning. AND I still have my heels on and he LOVES that.
If I need an extra boost I wear my Chase me F*ck me boots (as my BF calls them)

I have a home-made facial, wash my hair, shape my eyebrows, listen to great music, moisturize my face, I stand in front of the mirror, smile and wink at myself (

That comment was supposed to end with:

What's with the symbols on this site! Grrr!

That comment was supposed to end with

sorry, I give up

Procrastinate and do nothing. Listen to music. Talk to Raj. He always makes me feel better.

i dont need a booster. im always confident cus im amazing:]

Whenever i am feeling down and blue...i play with my kids. we play a game- our favorits are hide-and-seek or pillow fights. Whenever we play hide and seek someone always hides in a ridiculous spot with their legs or arms sticking out and all you can do is laugh hysterically. Someone is always under the blanket giggling. It's just FUN it puts my life into perspective and helps me remember why i am here. AND it always ends in "mom-you're the greatest"
Now how's that for a confidence booster?!!!!

I start off with annoying my can mates by taking a looong shower (I feel completely justified because they never clean the bathroom), use my TIGI hair mask, a pretty smelling body lotion, then spend longer than usual primping and deciding what to wear. Then when I head out for the day, I've got the "Yeah, I'm hot" thing going on.
Or, if all else fails, I curl up with a good book and some popcorn and ignore the world.

Whenever i am feeling down and blue...i play with my kids. we play a game- our favorits are hide-and-seek or pillow fights. Whenever we play hide and seek someone always hides in a ridiculous spot with their legs or arms sticking out and all you can do is laugh hysterically. Someone is always under the blanket giggling. It's just FUN it puts my life into perspective and helps me remember why i am here. AND it always ends in "mom-you're the greatest"
Now how's that for a confidence booster?!!!!

that was the cutest comment Ive ever read.

rock music and shopping!!

When Im feeling blue I .......eat chocolate haggen daz ice cream,listen to music OR paintin my artbook.

I never run from sadness I think its good to have at least one day a month(usually around my period) when u can be completely pessimistic and miserable. When these days come I really purge all of the negative emotions i've been building up.

go outside to the park and hoop to "Red Alert" by basement jaxx. or just force myself to go take a walk outside with some upbeat music.

i like to window shop and if i have a lil money i will get somthing small for myself. i also exercise!!! thats what REALLY works.

Watching a good romantic comedy usually does it. Or lately (since there really haven't been a lot of good romance comedies since "When Harry Met Sally") I've been watching a lot of teen dance movies, like "Step Up" and "Step Up 2 the Streets" and "Center Stage." Something about the dancing makes me happy.

if i wake up in a sh*tty mood (which is rare), i put on my "Happy" playlist on my laptop,which consists of "Over The Hills And Far Away" by Led Zeppelin. i shower and what not, and i go into my closet and pick out something that makes me feel hot.

other than that, if i'm in a bad mood, you're just gonna have to deal with me being pissed for a bit. i usually get over things kinda fast.

I put on some peppy music and shake my body as if I have rabies!!!

good tunes and shopping always put me in a good mood

I crank up the music and dance. That always centers me and leaves me feeling happy.

I go shopping... It's a fact shopping cures depression

I listen to music, watch funny Youtube videos.. if I'm at home, open up my old yearbooks and read what everyone wrote

I look in the mirror and say:

"I'm good enough
I'm smart enough
and gosh darn it
people like me!"

Haha, anyone remember Stuart Smalley? Sorry, this post reminded me of that...

Anyway, to feel more confident, I put on my most flattering and favorite outfit of the moment and go out with the girls. Then I flirt with a hot guy or two, make them wish they had me, and go home at the end of the night to my man.

Or, like others have said, I can just spend time with my fiance and he always tells me I'm hot no matter how bad I think I look.

I always put on upbeat music and I dance naked. Weird right.

i usually buy a new lipstick/lipgloss to make myself feel better.

Diamonds are a girl's bestfriend. I put on my bling-bling jewelry, and I lounge around and admire them. Sometimes over a glass of wine.

I exercise. Usually tennis or running. And if its been a really bad day then I do both.

i usually do my hair , exercise, or dance around a bit!

retail therapy always works for me.

I play a little music and when I'm feeling really bad.. I ACTUALLY make a payment on my credit cards cause it makes me feel better about my financial situation and lets me know that I'll have the money to finance my dreams...

however...I have been known to succumb to retail therapy