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The How-To Lounge: Giving a Lap Dance

Wed, 08/06/2008 - 3:00pm by DearSugar
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Now, I don’t think that anyone should be rushing out and giving lap dances to random gents, but lap dances can be a sexy and fun way to spice up your foreplay. It can also be a serious treat for your man and a great way to take the initiative. To learn my tips, read more.

  • First and most important, act confident — even if you don’t feel it. Tell yourself that you’re the sexiest woman on the planet, and then act like you really believe it. It will make all the difference in the world.
  • Put on some music. Not only will the right song set the mood, but it’ll also give you some rhythm to move along with.
  • Don’t be afraid to tantalize him for a while without actually touching him directly. Move your body up and down in front of him, before straddling him with your legs.
    Then use your upper body to roll into him and press up against him. You can even smack your bottom and smile at him — he'll never see it coming!
  • Finally, put his hands on your body while you run your hands through his hair. Lift off his shirt, and let your fingertips trail down his chest.

As always, have fun, and do what feels right for you!

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  • GlowingMoon's picture
    GlowingMoon
    1

    Sorry, not my style. I dance, but I wouldn't do stripper moves. That's not my sexual personality.

    15 weeks 12 hours ago Report Comment
  • sassy_chick's picture
    sassy_chick
    2

    We love this. The benefit of being engaged to a man who loves you is that you're free to explore things that you secretly want but would never do in real life. I could never bring myself to strip professionally, but it's hot to play that part in the bedroom with my man. He's so appreciative and complimentary that it makes me feel amazing. And we all know that confidence=amazing sex.

    15 weeks 11 hours ago Report Comment
  • neonbee's picture
    neonbee
    3

    My friends and I tried pole dancing as exercise and I guess I've felt more confident about dancing in general, even lap dances. But I'm not quite sure I'm ready to do it in front of my significan other.

    15 weeks 10 hours ago Report Comment
  • MissMimz's picture
    MissMimz
    5

    awwww thanks for this post Sugar! I like tips to spice things up Eye-wink

    15 weeks 9 hours ago Report Comment
  • bekkachan's picture
    bekkachan
    6

    I dunno if I would ever have the courage to do this (someday... maybe), but it's always good to know where the info is if I need it. Thanks for the ideas Sugar!

    15 weeks 7 hours ago Report Comment
  • LoveSarah's picture
    LoveSarah
    7

    My fiance and I are so open about everything, that it's so easy for me to feel comfortable with him. I'll have to try this later tonight Eye-wink

    14 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • Lovely_1's picture
    Lovely_1
    8

    Yaya!
    I start my pole dancing classes TODAY!
    My bf is soooo excited Smiling
    We are SO getting a pole as soon as I start to get good Woohoo

    14 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • TidalWave's picture
    TidalWave
    9

    http://teamsugar.com/525125

    If you're nervous about it, rent the Carmen Electra fitness striptease videos (there is a lapdance one). They will give you ideas and she does a really good job at making everything seem natural and easy.

    Also, your boyfriend will looooooooooooove it. No matter how nervous you look or if you mess up or start giggling. He'll love that you just had the courage to even try to do that!

    14 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • skigurl's picture
    skigurl
    10

    i think it would be so awkward for both parties involved! unless you were good and drunk!

    14 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • TidalWave's picture
    TidalWave
    11

    skigurl! you think your boyfriend is going to feel awkward at seeing his girlfriend dance in front of him and look sexy and playfully tease him?

    geez, is foreplay awkward for you?

    14 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment
  • Lovely_1's picture
    Lovely_1
    12

    I agree Tidal!
    My boyfriend LOVES it! And I love watching how turned on he gets from my body! Makes me feel more confident and sexy Sticking out tongue

    14 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment

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